​Pause! Stop! Wait! Let him (the man) work hard for your worth! Let him and all of them (grown men) work hard for you if men want to have some of your time. No need to waste your time. If women knew about God's truth, they would not allow anything less but God's better than the best. The best love, best affection, best connection, and action! Anything else is nonsense! Read your evidence in the book of Genesis (29:18). There was a man by the name of Jacob who wanted a wife and he was willing to do just about anything to get the girl (Rachel) that he wanted. He told Laban (Rachel's father) he would serve 7 years for his daughter Rachel. He did! As a matter of fact, due to Rachel's father deceit about his two daughters, Jacob served 7 years for Rachel twice. Yes, he did another 7 years to become equally yoke with Rachel in matrimony. Some men probably would have given up. Not Jacob. The goal is for a man not to give up on his partner or when things get hard in life because it will. The couple is encouraged to figure it all out together. The man will always be successful when prayer is part of the covenant. They say timing is everything! Waiting verses rushing is in all things. Especially if it is something you want. Jacob loved Rachel so much. The histrionic flood of Jacob's love for Rachel seemed like days to him.

Jacob's heart and mind was totally worthy in foison and his character was an extension of all his worthiness to have Rachel.
God gave proof in his word to show us how to gain more addition in life and less subtraction. Women with daughters are charged with teaching them their worth along with their fathers leading the way. In my notice of motion to inspire women to believe, nothing a man desires can be compared to your worth ladies. You're the worthy gift! Start showing up like you are and putting in the work to attract all of the goodness the right man has for you.

If a man wants to take you out, he is encouraged to have premeditated plans for your date. A 24-hour calculated plan and agenda. What about weekend plans? Yes, that too! He could give you lots of slow jam hugs depending on how long you have been dating or knowing each other. The man could take you on a blind fold trip. The ultimate way of knowing he is into you is how the man studies and researches you to find out what you like and don't like. The man will be the best reporter to accomplish that.

If there are things in your life that you really like but for some reason you aren't doing it anymore, he will gingerly find it out and make that happen, again. He is encouraged to take it upon himself to find out what your favorite foods are and take you to dine at a place where it is on the menu. The man could push you out of your comfort zone and take you to a place where you've never tried the food. Your manly date could do something extra sweet to make you smile and feel so special. The man could teach you something like showing off his leadership skills and proficiencies. The man is encouraged to teach a woman something that she can learn from. He rocks. The man could end your 24-hour date by doing things that are intimate in a non-sexual way, but If you guys want to do it that's yall business (lol). I was just kidding. I couldn't resist writing that. It was so funny. Think about your worth. Holding your hand or going for a morning/midnight walk is a very intimate thing. He could also cook for you. Whatever it takes, you are worth the stakes.

If a man wants to date or court, you, he is encouraged to be prepared to yield himself to the right and leave left alone with wrong. He should be intentional to make “to do better” his favorite mistake and do it over and over again when it comes to you. Any trace of moronic illness should be out of his system if that man wants you. There are men who really need to grow up. I encourage women to please to stop making it so easy for men to be lazy when it comes to dating or courting you. Low effort men is an unwelcomed trend. It's not attractive. It is his job to work hard for you. He is the master of his own mind. The right man can and will work hard for you.

"Just as a gardener cultivates his plot, keeping it free from weeds, and growing the flowers and fruits which he requires, so may a man tend the garden of his mind, weeding out all the wrong, useless, and impure thoughts, and cultivating toward perfection the flowers and fruits of right, useful, and pure thoughts, By pursuing this process, a man sooner or later discovers that he is the master gardener of his soul, the director of his life." (James Allen)

Yes, a man should work hard for you! God already laid the foundation for your Sancti-Fly Worth! Oh, and for the record, this narrative is about men. You can write about women on your own page. Did you read the very first paragraph?