This is a good way to start your day. You have to believe it! This prayer guards you in safety (traveling mercies). If you want to give your angels more assignments for your life, please do. They are placed in the world for this very motive...watching over you. Please pray the entire prayer of Psalms 91 over your life. You have nothing to 'loose' but change in your atmosphere by praying this prayer; putting negative energy in its place. The lord will even wow you when you pray this prayer over your family as he grants it to creep down the pipe of your bloodline. You can practice being anxiety free with Psalms. There will be plenty-many drops of grace and mercy standing in your way to bless your day with this prayer.
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee. Psalms 91:7
This is a good way to start your day. You have to believe it! This prayer guards you in safety (traveling mercies). If you want to give your angels more assignments for your life, please do. They are placed in the world for this very motive...watching over you. Please pray the entire prayer of Psalms 91 over your life. You have nothing to 'loose' but change in your atmosphere by praying this prayer; putting negative energy in its place. The lord will even wow you when you pray this prayer over your family as he grants it to creep down the pipe of your bloodline. You can practice being anxiety free with Psalms. There will be plenty-many drops of grace and mercy standing in your way to bless your day with this prayer.
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The lengthening of inequality still leaks in the bloodline of America for people of color and poor people. All Dr. King wanted was for America (whites) to see him and other black folks as human beings. Dr. King was viewed by those European brothers and sisters who feared him as dangerous. He smelled like an educated black man who understood he had the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of a form of happiness as an American who just so happen to be born black. On April 4, 1968 Dr. King was slain to death while in Memphis, standing on the balcony at the Lorraine Hotel. Dr. King was doing what he treasured; serving and helping people. He was in Memphis trying to help the sanitation workers gain economic strength and fairness for their freedom as they went on strike. Has anything really changed in those 50 years? In 50 years we have conquered racism (we not fully done yet) coupled with racial prejudice and discrimination. People are justified in articulating how slow the progression, nevertheless, no one can deny that Dr. King and his team's labor of love did not change things. The truth is, Dr. King did change a lot of things. We just have more work to do. We went from treating people like they were invisible creatures to seeing them as visible humans. I don't know when you were born but I never experienced sitting on the back of any bus unless I wanted to. People of all skin colors enjoy each other’s company in public facilities. Also, we were able to welcome transportation in a decent way because of Dr. King's dream! In light of the Montgomery Bus Boycott we can all sit together in peace and harmony. Intimidation and cruelty was done in front of the world as Bloody Sunday made its mark in history. Black folks wanted to vote and those white southerners were afraid of that kind of political power. There is so much work to be done; the way some (not all) police officers handle people of color. It has not changed that much when black men and boys have to exude perfect behavior if they are stopped by the police. In 50 years we have gone from Bloody Sunday to Eric Garner being put in a choke hold to his death as the world watched. American people were outraged by Bloody Sunday and the Voting Rights Act of 1965 was enacted as a result of it. What about Eric Garner or all the other black men and boys? I certainly don’t ever remember having to go to a different water fountain than a white person. It is foreign to those of us born after the civil rights movement. As we look back at the history of America, it really is silly that those who were in control of the laws of this land decided to make separate but equal laws. Today Americans can go to school with a bunch of beautiful people that God created on purpose; of all skin color and races. Dr. Martin Luther King was obedient to his assignment; his calling to change legislation. In 50 years since his absence, we no longer have segregation (well overall) like it once was. Dr. King was very instrumental in the desegregation of this nation. Dr. King's righteousness did exalt a nation; piercing the heart of America to be born again! Only God can change a person's heart. As long as wicked intentions drips and mixes in the legacy of America, we will overcome with bold resistance. There are so many young lives that were sacrificed for the struggle of freedom against hatred. This is what Dr. King was fighting for and against: racial injustice, economic and political power, social justice, inhumane treatment of darker skin and pure evilness. There were four innocent little black girlfriends at the 16th Street Baptist Church in Birmingham who lost their lives in a church bombing. They were worshiping God when they died. Emmett Till was 14 years old when he died for no reason at all. It was alleged that he whistled at a white lady. It was all a lie. Blacks and whites even died together for the suffrage of others. Michael Schwerner, Andrew Goodman and James Chaney were civil rights activist who risked their lives for the cause. America got it wrong and has done so for so many years.
Thankfully, the kismet of Americans are getting it right by having conversations with each other; mobilizing and strategizing for a better more just America. There are people of all races and backgrounds who continue to fight for all the things Dr. King stood for. I pray for the continuation of those active collaborations. Karam & Kartari Chand
Karam and Kartari Chand gives marriage couples the hope they need to fight for their marriages. They debunked the polemic belief that a marriage is only supposed to last for a certain amount of years or that divorce is imminent. Their legacy of arranged love floods in a bloodline of eight children and 27 grand- children coupled with a host of great-grand babies. I am sure they had trials and tests but they did not quit on each other. It is interesting to me that they did not indulge in an artificial diet. This is a testimony to the world to let you know it can be done; longevity, maybe 90 years for you too! God's Love Math is a fun formula I came up with using a couple's first and last names to see how they match. In order to do God's Love Math for Karam and Kartari, you must first include the Alphabet Love Codes! This is only the alphabets from A-Z labeled in numbers. Next, spell their names with the code. A=1 B=2 C=3 D=4 E=5 F=6 G=7 H=8 I=9 J=10 K=11 L=12 M=13 N=14 O=15 P=16 Q=17 R=18 S=19 T=20 U=21 V=22 W=23 X=24 Y=25 Z=26 Alphabet love codes for Karam & Kartari Chand! K (11) A (1) R (18) A M C H A N D K (11) A (1) R (18) T A R I C H A N D K A R A M K A R T A R I 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Consonants and Vowels Match Their vowels and consonants surpassed double trouble with a triple hit of love bliss. The K, A and R that do match are in the numeric order of 1, 2, and 3=123. They married in the month of December, back in 1925. Karam's birthday is in the month of November (1905) and so is Kartari's birthday, November 1, 1912. KARAM + KARTARI =12 LETTERS NOVEMBER 11 (1+1) Karam=2 added together=5 (5 is their love#) 111 (1+1+1=3) Katari=3 NOVEMBER 1 The very last step of God's Love Math is adding the numbers in the years both people are born in. You add the numbers up one, by one, so if a person is born in 1992 you will add 1+9+9+2 and get 21. Then take the last 2 numbers of the year (9+2=11) and add them to the first 2 numbers of that same year (11+19=30). Sometimes the numbers will mean or represent something significant to a couple and sometimes not. 1905=(15) 1912 (13) (1+9+1+2)=13 05=0+5 03=1+2 24 22 19+05=24 19+03=22 Please remember not to take this too serious if you do apply God's Love Math to your marriage or as couples. It is a formula I came up with for fun. If you do try it, let us know your love numbers and your entire God Love Math. In the beginning God created Sancti-Fly Women to help their brothers and kings give an enhanced vision to their manhood and dreams. Parenthetically, the fool has said in his heart, “there is no God.” How on earth could that be when we have the entelechy of Sancti-Fly Women rocking as Queens? God did that thing on purpose; for an allegiance of determination. Sancti-Fly Women are God’s best recipe of creation; bringing peace and love to the foundation of life. I will be showing-off an umbrella of meritorious Sancti-Fly Women (pictures) for the month of March during Women’s History Month. Please check back to see daily updates on SFM. Here is a little taste. I hope you enjoy them! Thank you! God created this stentorian voice to give us 365 reasons to expose the malfeasance in domestic violence and corruption. She craves strategic ways to speak the truth so she can feed it to you, killing abuse in all formulas and codes as an insurrection of protection; with an “S” ON HER CHEST FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE. She is my #1 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Today I celebrate a specialized “peace” of spice and love just ripe to consume the flavor in all of our lives. I honor you as "The Soul of All Sisters" who rock non-stop in beautiful pieces of spice with pretty around the edges for a Sancti-Fly Life! She is the reason why black girls rock and continue to unite in the struggle for civil and human rights, with good ole fashion black girl magic. She helps us to rise! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MY SISTER! May you be blessed all the way up…high! Stay Sancti-Fly! :0) She is my #2 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. A major taste of God’s grace at 80 miles per blessings in an hour. She is still winning as a 2x cancer survivor. She is fearfully and wonderfully made to sing under the anointing of God in a contemporary gospel way. Premeditated and created to turn carnal hearts back to God, with a melodic brew of personalized tunes to inspire you not to worry! She is my #3 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. God’s best recipe promoting a lifestyle of Exodus 9:16 as a prerequisite of encouragement for you to drown and bleed in your purpose artistic destiny; evangelizing our minds to realize our worth and proclaim it throughout the earth. Her attire is clothed in “purpose fire” leaking in fearlessness as she dresses with a different twist to get you pregnant in your inner strength; keeping virtue in your right eye and the anointing to kill what’s left...nothing but purpose! She is my #4 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. She is the culmination of determination, pushing us hard to slay the beast of unbelief; to plan our goals and live out our dreams. God told her to write so she drowned in it with all of her might, in pieces of beautiful ashes sprinkled in pure passion; winning in her dominion as she teaches us her #1 hit of how NOT to quit. Keep on going! The beginning, middle and ending of her story is giving God all of the glory. She is my #5 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Welcome to the continual dripping of 'A-Tone-Ment' to heal thee, in the esperance of dope melodies. She steals the noise that is off-beat and makes it sweet in accuracy. She rocks a thrasonical integrity as a servant in the United States military. She is exquisitely gifted in her talent. The prosperity of her love tunes is her national anthem of passion, found on YouTube. She is my #6 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. She holds the brew of Sancti-Fly truths to be self-evident in betterment. Men, women, boys and girls are attached to her resilient aroma of strength and encouragement. She gallantly personifies the best ingredients of what character should represent: -A stalwart wind of faith coupled by nonjudgmental grace. -A refreshing blessing is what she brings on any scene, corporately and privately as negative energy is dismissed at any and all of her events. -She is a positive breeze that believes in staying on her knees. -Her earnest thrill is to surrender to God’s perfect will for her life…continually becoming the best woman for Christ. -She never allows gossip to dominate her ways. Her dictum is “be quiet and pray!” She is my #7 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. The pedagogy of her constructive vivacity got folks knocked up in the freedom to believe, something great is going to happen to them by faith. God guides her steps and instructs her lead, as she makes every day a GOOD day to exchange pleasantries in her advocacy to create a woman’s documentary; impelling ALL women to march in solidarity to end the suffering of the African American woman unhealthy heartbeat. She remains on her mission to divulgate a fusillade of King mustard seeds for you to pay attention and listen! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU SISTER SHARON KING! She is my #8 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Her love day is March 8. Let no man put asunder, the acute fruit of a black girl rocking inspiration around her waist like thunder. God’s favor is her flavor, with a dash of HOLY and a full cup of the SPIRIT to enhance a righteous vision. In her presence you’ll find heavenly scents, like “Wonder Woman-Mints” to feed you fabulously, not to be weak in sleep but to stay woke in hope. She is dressed in fruitfulness, fighting the gusty winds of sin to let the “son” shine in her eyes as she lives a fruitful and fabulous “Daughter of the King” life! She gives us the provision to emulate Godly living...on purpose! She is my #9 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. I had a dream and saw this "Lil Little" vintage queen on the cover of Ebony magazine, rocking Quirky Finds in essence of colored girl blessings representing black girl magic in a mainstream world. She is the length and width of supreme intelligence in smithereens of positive bliss; pushing you towards the “looks of notice” to stay focus on your entrepreneur motives! She is my #10 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. The fool has said in his canard heart, stating that there are no single men and women living for God. In her vineyard, this disciple of God rocks her relationship unapologetically hard. She reversed the script and made the doubt into some bliss for us to intermingle with black love and inspiration for born-again singles. The inscription that bleeds on her sleeves is Mark 11:23. Her egalitarian ways symbolizes more than just a pretty face. She is a warrior queen of faith; on her journey to 30 taking super-sized bites to influence Christ into your life. Tatianah is deprogramming your mind against deadlines. She is convinced God authors her time! T stands for “Trendsetta” or for a meritorious innovator and stone-cold content creator. She is my #11 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. In the beginning she was smothered in Love and Victory dripping in Christian melodies, bringing peace and love to her foundation in digital media, higher education. I would be remiss if I didn’t show-off such an elegant gift. She is an inflammatory heir of strength. Her first, last, and middle name remains stuck in change. She is a prominent yeasayer who is always speaking, teaching, and leading others to overcome the symptoms and syndromes of life. As a believer her advice-giving assets are covered in her energy plus dependency from the “son” who helps her change hearts and gives light to their dark. She is my #12 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. She is rising in her birthright to revamp her life, shining in luciferous, thriving as the difference in the evidence of prophetic gifts; God freely gives to his children. She is a garden of sassy delights and fun nights of unforgettable laughter. She is an undercover lipstick lover. Just like me! She looks in the mirror of faith each day and understands it’s all about grace. Grace to take a chance not living in the pass, grace to forgive herself to heal. Grace to rock in the flow of letting God have full control. Grace to blink, think and drink belief. Grace to remain praising his name and grace with the armor to exemplify honoring her mother and father. Her life is spread out in layers of grace to finish the race God has set before her to win. She is my #13 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. A Queen B who rocks non-stop in a class of her own called fancy, imbued in militancy; setting off sisterhood relief when you remained quiet and did not speak. She will unite you in your rights; digging inside your nerves and say, “stand up for yourself!” She will voice her peace as the antithesis of diffidence! She is loaded in boldness! She totally rejects the cause and effect of those who continue allowing poor character to ride their backs; treating some skin colors less than the others. She often discerns her brother and sister’s birth pains so she prays. She is intellectually driven, endorsing academics in her community and in her children. Antediluvian goals are what she exposes; so up your nose with letting stereotypes go! Let it go! She is my #14 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Saturated in an allegiance to remain unashamed to worship his name in her multi-steps of praise; covering Courtney and Kendall in all of her ways. She whispers prayers in the morning and bloodstain coverings at night. She loves her family and friends with all of her might. She inspires them to edit and revise their life, to live right! Her apostolic fire is soaking wet in her #1 desire for God to order her steps. She exudes gratulation to love her family and friends as an example of sacrifice, to let them know they can do all things through Christ! She is my #15 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Pause…stop…wait! She is strung out on the “dopest” hope in spiritual growth! She on the rise, schooling us on how to be at peace; to be FREE in being the unique persons God created us all to be! Nothing compares to the outlandish art of photography sparkling in her heart. She teaches us all how to be travel girls and queens, in her core function of loving Paris’ cinematography. On her faith menu, she continues making ways out of every day to throw some positive vibes all up in your face, everywhere her footsteps tread. She is my #16 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. How on earth can this favor be? Addicted fanatics are seeking deliverance from the personalized ingredients in Cozy Sweet Treats. There is a latter rain of “cookie rage” that the nations crave. It is part of God’s master plan for Cozy Sweet Treats to possess the land. She dedicated her ways unto the lord and Cozy Sweet Treats was established through her commitment from tragedy to victory. She was predestined with complimentary blessings to keep us devoted and hooked on her homemade succulence. Four years and fifteen surgeries later, she is economically efficient; productive in her mission to give us inventive treats to eat. Original specialty treats of cookies, pies and cobblers are waiting for you; go get your breakthrough! She is my #17 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Uniquely endowed in extra pleasant sauce to be bold as a lioness; grooming our young kings and queens to reverence Godly things. She tests positive in groovy matutinal layers of Morning Prayer and alter calls to get our entire families and our youth involved in God’s house (kingdom business). She is the #1 cohort in sisterhood support, showing us how to guard ourselves in the gospel; therefore, no weapon formed against us will prosper. She rocks heavy duty samples of beauty in unity. She continues to make ways out of every day to honor her father’s legacy and love her son in a special way; praise breaks cure her aches. She is my #18 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s She is driven in an enhanced vision of faithfulness to rock the fragrance of her fruitful style, in the spirit of her joyful handmade jewelry designs. Customers are thunderstruck at the patterns of her decorative gentle touch. The breastplate of the charms she creates instigates peaceful thoughts, good memory and healing like the hematite crystals. She patiently crafts "beadwork" bliss for fraternities and sororities to love what they wear; girded around their wrist. She kindly designs inspirational attributes like sparkly beads, fall tones, red tones, purple passion royalty, leather macramé and stainless steel for you to feel hard-pressed in bless. There is no need for you to be charmless! She is my #19 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. She is the entelechy of uniformity in action words; affirming the positive side-effects that Diversity is a Verb. She came to bring the noise and fill a basket full of voids and indifference to get you on the right path to resistance, against all affluent moves induced with a narrow view of mainstream truths. She abides in the presence of aeonian blessings of self-acceptance to secure her message. Diversity bespeaks we are all human beings! We are all somebody! She is the awareness for all of us to discontinue exalting pure ignorance in social media conditions. We are all interdependent on each other as sisters and brothers! She is like a tree of empowerment planted by streams of diversity to keep us starving in an educated thirst to improve resolutions within our communities. What about the corporate entities? Gina keeps delivering us into emancipation to rock a global youth nation with liberation and righteousness for all. She is my #20 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. SFM TEEMING WITH A SANCTI-FLY LIFESTYLE. SHE ALWAYS THINKING IN PATTERNS OF WOW TO SHOW OFF THE LIGHT OF JESUS CHRIST… AT THE APPOINTED CREATIVE TIME, SHE CURVES YOUR NERVE WITH FEEL GOOD WORDS. MASSAGING YOUR MIND WITH SANCTI-FLY VIBES OVERABUNDANCE IN AN ENCOMIUM TWIST. MAKING A DIFFERENCE TO SHARE HER GIFTS WITH THE WORLD. THIS SANCTI-FLY MAMA IS AN INFECTIOUS GIRL…EMANCIPATING SANCTI-FLY LOVE IN A COMMODIOUS INSPIRATIONAL FLOOD NIMIETY TO CELEBRATE SANCTI-FLY MEN AND SANCTI-FLY WOMEN IN A GORGEOUS VARIETY OF PAPA STARS AND BUTTER-FLY MAMA QUALITIES; EDIFYING SANCTI-FLY MARRIAGES DRENCHED IN SANCTI-FLY BUSINESS BLISS INVENTING THINGS WORTH YOUR MENTION LIKE A FLORILEGIUM OF POETRY PRAYER STEAMED SLIGHTLY TO THE RIGHT TO UNITE PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS DIPPED IN HIP HOP POETRY PRAYER LIPS. I AM SO PROUD OF THIS INNOVATIVE SANCTI-FLY CHICK She is the #21 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. One-two, sisters are coming for you! They are all around you to pray with you; to push you into positive things, like pursuing your dreams. A sister will deposit some of her love in you. Three-four, sisters will help you shop at different stores! They will meet you there. They will inform you on all of the sales; interrupting your life with an exciting wild coupon lifestyle. They demonstrate how to be economically driven against division. Five-six, sisters will visit you when you’re down or sick! They will bring lots of cheer to perk up your atmosphere. They will help meet your household needs with food and donations; plus understanding and patience. Seven-eight, a sister will encourage you to walk by faith! They know what you see but you have to believe! Nine-ten, a sister will be an extension of your family; like a never ending friend! We live to forgive and we fight to unite! There is absolutely nothing like being in the shelter of true sisterhood. I do understand that some women prefer hanging out with men. There are women of all races in artsy colors who know how to be authentic girlfriends. To all the Sancti-Fly Women, the scent of sisterhood smells good on you. Please continue! These 2 sisters are my #22 Sancti-Fly Women for Women’s History Month. She is the apotheosis festooning art made by the devotion of her hands, produced from the passion in her heart; making magic with tablescaping fabrics. She rocks essential benefits of original bliss for your children and family to have fun with. She understands what it means to sow good seeds of opportunity in her Home & Heart Dezigns. Her comportment is enriched with a dulcinea anointing; keeping her heart communed in loving God. She has generosity detained in her eyes to multiply an expressive lane of ingenuity that reigns in art education; simmering in economic intoxication. She girds her nerves in the adoration of proverbs to strengthen her expertise with vision. She is my #23 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women's History Month. You will not interject any vaunting disrespect and not get the mark of a check tattooed from the soul of your feet to the crown of your head. She imparts evenhandedness against any unfairness; impacting elements of a woman’s JUSTICE! She launches major “affordable care acts” of compassion; helping our sons and brothers interpose some backbone in their royal thrones as kings; taking care of their families; yielding in UNITY! Her uncompromising light curves their appetites to do what’s right. She takes an esoterica stance building up women and men; lending her talents and gifts to help fund scholarships for underprivileged families. She has a long history rocking GENEROSITY! She glows in a philanthropic outpouring to continue planting, sowing and growing in community SERVICE to educate, mentor and inspire all human beings to rise a little bit higher. Get involved and do your part! She is my #24 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women's History Month. She is the definition of health consciousness, teachable lessons, and the secret weapon of free community health sessions as an advisor and health activist. Her name bespeaks action as she uses her passion to her advantage; exploiting her gifts and talents to fight for you and your well-being. She stays on her proactive mission to rock her difference, without permission to bless you with the right to live your life in the best physical condition. She demonstrates how to be faithful and how we can sacrifice our time for a good cause, leading to a healthier bloodline. She is my number #25 Sancti-Fly Woman and birthday woman for Woman’s History Month. HAPPY BLESSED BIRTHDAY Dr. Roz! The fragrance of God is drenched inside of her heart as a rod of correction invading deception from Canada to Africa. Her mellifluous scent is a testament of hope as she extends indefatigable love to others on a regular; breaking yolks. Her mouth is wrapped up in an alabaster jar of wisdom. Her tongue is tied up in the law of kindness as a bondservant of the most high. She is so Sancti-Fly! Whatever God commands she does; wherever God sends, she servantly goes. She thinks the independent thoughts that bleed good things, as an evangelist and entrepreneuress, rocking the warmth of an intercessor, as an applicant for her Ph.D. The master of the sea cleanses her from impossibilities as she begins to ascend to new heights to lionize her own life with purpose-driven vision. She gives us the prophecy to live out our dreams; instigating us to have the power of a made up mind. She has been willing and obedient to bear her cross in order to wear many crowns. She is my #26 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Trade Shows sell out quick when she’s in the mix. She is the perfect fit of a brown skin mama, God-sent to empower ripe investments in her best life; with an artistic backbone who fiercely rocks the heir of confidence in editorial prints. She is fluent in goodness and grace; awaiting to taste an orogeny of new faith; sipping on terrific doing independent films. The men always pause as she uses her charity for a good cause; expanding her vision in winning. When she enters any events cameras click and flick in her classy presence as she arouses the crowd working her Sancti-Fly style. Her entrance demands attention! She is the side reflection of “fashionlicious” beauty, blessed in assurance to conquer the entertainment world. She is my #27 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women’s History Month. Assuredly, she is able to do exceedingly and abundant events for you with superlative management skills that thrill; researching out all that matters to certify your events are efficiently customized in attractiveness; good memories. Parenthetically speaking, she wears an ornament of faithfulness to ensure your event is inundated in a popular bliss of lavishness. She is the saporific evidence destined and meant to plan all of your corporate events (DiamondTouchPep); ruff enough to cut your special request; satisfying you and your entire crew. DiamondTouchPep is the imperative sun to light dark events; giving your moon the right light to unite you in fun times; especially on your wedding night. She puts her hands on her hips in cleverness, allowing good germs to breed when she sneeze; sending us kisses of eventfulness; planning efficacious birthday parties and baby shower events! Slow down ma, ya "killin’em!" No! No! No! She can’t stop her “black girl rock” because God did that thing on purpose. She is my #30 Sancti-Fly Woman for Women's History Month. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MY SISTER
The Sister Circle Girlfriend Chats is a fictitious online radio show hosted by 5 women who happen to be girlfriends. It is a platform where women come together to support each other during human issues they have in life. They laugh, they cry and they get real girlfriend solutions if they choose to take heed. Sometimes they don't take heed. The sisters sit in a circle each week and talk about the issues they want to discuss. They allow callers to call into their show to share their feelings, concerns or comments. Nothing is off limits!
Iona starts off the circle by discussing her exasperation with her new female neighbor’s active lifestyle. They live next to each other in their upscale condominium building. Iona states that her female neighbor has a different boyfriend every week. It is hard for her to sleep at night in light of her neighbor’s sexual activity. Iona: Welcome to our Sister Circle! I am delighted to start off the chat today. I recently got a new neighbor in my condo building. She is around the same age as I am. She has no kids but I do. I am very frustrated with her because she has a new boyfriend every week. I am subjected to hearing all of their personal business at night. It’s so irritating! Trisha: I believe most folks can relate to this. I remember experiencing the same thing when I was single and dating my husband. There was a man and woman who lived in my apartment building and they hooked up with each other often. It was such a bad ending when they broke up. I wasn’t the only one complaining about them. Several other neighbors also felt their displeasure because they would go back and forth to each other's place at night. We were all stuck in the middle of their apartments. Luckily the girl abruptly moved out. There were rumors of some infidelity. All I know is there was so much more peace when she left because he left a few months after the young lady. I am praying for you Iona. I totally empathize. Iona: Okay…but wait…you said you were dating your husband back then? So what did he think about the situation. I’m just curious about a man’s perspective. I don’t know what I would do if I had to deal with two of them. Trisha: Yes, I was dating my husband. He always remained neutral as he listened to me. He didn’t like it. We always tried our best to be mindful of others when we had our special time together or we would go to a hotel. I appreciate being able to have my own home where I have more space. I dislike being wall to wall with others. Certain walls are so thin when they are linked together. You can hear everything. Kayla: I am surprised you didn’t say something to your neighbor Iona. I don’t like to assume so if you did confront her, what was the outcome. I can relate to this. I’ve had this happen to me multiple times as an unmarried single woman. I use to just turn up my television or get my earplugs and listen to my music. Iona: Yes, Kayla, you know I did! I confronted her. I verbally spoke to her about the situation. I sent her text messages. I tried all the loud music and television. It didn’t get me anywhere. I even told her how I have to get up early to get my kids ready for school. It seemed to slow down a bit for a while, and then she started it back up again. She is a nice person but I don’t like her behavior. I think it is so disrespectful towards me and my kids to keep asking her to tone it down. As neighbors we do look out for one another but her lifestyle is terrible. Kayla: What did she say when you mentioned it to her? Iona: Of course she acted like she was going to comply. She said thanks for letting her know and “will do” like everything was okay. We verbally got into it once before because I told her that I felt she was being very disrespectful. She didn’t think she was because she replied…how. I told her I didn’t want to hear her personal business every night with her gentleman company. Most of my neighbors that live in our condo are all members and we pay to live there peacefully. She is the only one who interacts this way. THE ONLY ONE! Valaria: Unfortunately I can also relate Iona. I use to live by a police officer who was a bachelor and experienced the exact same thing. I lived in a townhome at the time. The walls were very thin and every time he had relations I was able to hear it. I only mentioned it to him one time and I noticed after that, he started making sure he was a lot quieter. I know my case is rare so I really wish you the best girl! Constance: Iona, why won’t you complain to the association? There should be some kind of stipulations for disturbing the peace at night. I understand she has a right to live there; to do and go as she pleases but you live in that building too. You also have rights. I would go straight to management. I am so grateful I don’t have to go through that anymore. It is a blessing to have your own home where you don’t have to be too close to other people as Trisha stated. Iona: I really didn’t want to go that route. I may have to. We will have to go before the board and then probably mediation if it is not resolved. I will have to take off work. I really don’t have the time. Constance: Well you tried to talk to the girl! I mean, what else is left! She acts like she is looking for love in all the wrong places. No woman should allow her temple to be used and abused like that. Kayla: What do you mean by that Constance? If a man is sexually free to express himself with his sexuality it is no big deal but as soon as a woman does it, it’s a problem? This world has too many double standards. I would love to hear what our callers have to say. Iona: Um…well the lines are totally rocking off the hook. Thanks for that viewpoint Kayla. Kayla: You got it! No problem. Constance: Kayla, sweetie there is no double standard with me. I am a mother of a little boy. I am raising him to respect his body and all women at an early age. In my opinion, I don’t think it is healthy or safe for anyone; women or men to have different people in and out of their bedroom doors every week as stated by Iona in her situation. Iona: Every week…everyday….I mean this chick changes men like the wind. Kayla: Lets listen to what all of our callers have to say about very active neighbors. Are you one of them or have you been affected by one? Remember you can chat anonymous. Tune in next time (October) to find out what the audience has to say. What do you think? What would you do? Disclaimer: The opinions and views expressed of all the characters and the advice is not real. It is fiction. The Sister Circle Girlfriend Chats is a fictitious online radio show hosted by 5 women who happen to be girlfriends. It is a platform where women come together to support each other during human issues they have in life. They laugh, they cry and they get real girlfriend solutions if they choose to take heed. Sometimes they don't take heed. The sisters sit in a circle each week and talk about the issues they want to discuss. They allow callers to call into their show to share their feelings, concerns or comments. Nothing is off limits! The continuation from the last show (September 2017) begins as Constance, Kayla, Trisha, Valeria and Iona allow callers to call the show regarding Iona’s issues with her new neighbor.
Constance: Okay we are back from a short break. I believe we do have our first caller. We have a brother by the name of Alberto. Hello Alberto, you are very welcome to chat. Alberto: First of all, hello to all the beautiful ladies of the Circle and to those who are listening. There is no way around a man not enjoying the excitement and fun of knocking the boots with his lady. I certainly do empathize with you Iona but on the other hand, what is the young lady in question supposed to do? Maybe you can have a conversation with your neighbor and ask her if the two of you can set some type of schedule. That way, when she wants to have company over, you will know it and you can make arrangements not to be at home. She can make arrangements to have her quality time with her boo when you are not home. Keep in mind that the fact of you having kids should matter but it really doesn’t. I mean, it is her home too. Iona: Well considering all of her company creeps into her house late at night, I don’t think an arrangement is possible. I disagree with you concerning my kids but I respect your opinion. Thank you for calling in. Constance: Alberto, are you still there? Why should Iona attempt to make any arrangements with her neighbor? She already expressed to her how it is affecting her and her household. She has already communicated how her behavior is disturbing Iona’s peace. I understand it is her residence too but as neighbors, shouldn’t we respect each other and try to come up with a peaceful resolution. Valeria: We have an anonymous caller. Go ahead anonymous, you are very welcome to chat! Anonymous: I am going through all the episodes Iona spoke about. My neighbor is a man and he has a main girlfriend but he also has other women over his house constantly. I don’t understand why he never turns on his music to drown out the sound. I live in an apartment complex so yes, the walls are very thin. I can hear his headboard rocking back and forth. I can hear the springs in his mattress squeaking left and right. It’s a shame! I have talked to him about it but nothing has changed. Iona: Girlfriend, sounds like your neighbor needs to get a new mattress. Seriously, are you saying he has a main chick but he is cheating with other women? Anonymous: Yes, it appears that way. I hope they are being cautious. Constance: We have a Mr. Frederick on the line. Hello Frederick. You are very welcome to chat, sir. Frederick: Wait…wait…wait. I can’t sit by and allow your assumptions to corrupt the audience. Ms. Anonymous you don’t know if that is his main chick or side chick. You can’t say that. You don’t know! Why are women so nosy! They probably have an understanding Anonymous. She is probably seeing other people as well. Women are NOT innocent! Maybe it’s an open relationship and it is his business. I brought my first house at 21 and before then, I was always making love in a house. If I did have a townhouse or an apartment, there would be no compromise with anyone on how much sex I can have in the privacy of my house. Sorry, it’s a non-negotiable topic. We all know the woman comes to the man house anyway. Iona you’ve done it. You do have 2 kids, right! Constance you’ve done it! I am pretty sure Ms. Anonymous has done it as well. I am sure you all have disturbed someone else’s peace before whether you knew it or not so please stop acting like you haven’t. It's a part of life! Kayla: Ouch…I am so guilty of this! You might be correct Frederick. The issue is Iona and her female neighbor, who she has tried to reason with unsuccessfully. Let's stick to the topic. Constance: Frederick, I could go back and forth with how you are assuming that we have all allowed this to happen. I will not. There are some people in this world who are quite mindful of others and try their best to treat people the way they want to be treated. I can only speak for myself when I say if I was having relations with my husband when he and I were dating; they heard us by accident and not on purpose. There is a difference. If I am unaware and you speak to me about it then I know. If I keep doing it, then I am doing it on purpose and being inconsiderate. Valeria: We have another caller. I believe her name is Lupe. Oh, nope it is a guy. Sorry, go head Lupe. You are welcome to chat with us. Lupe: I just want to touch on what some of the other callers have stated. Although Iona feels like her neighbor is being disrespectful and inconsiderate. Iona has to look at it from another angle. Just because Iona has 2 children does not mean other people’s lives and fun has to stop. I think Iona is being awfully judgmental about her neighbor’s lifestyle. She has the right to live her life the way she wants. As a man, I won’t say I will die without having sexual relations with my girl but it is something that I enjoy doing. She likes coming over my house. I like having her there. I don’t agree with her neighbor disturbing your peace Iona. I think it is time for you to talk to the management where you live and try to solve your problems through them. Valeria: Yes, I agree. There needs to be some sort of mediation between Iona and her neighbor. We are running out of time but we have time for a few more callers. Toussaint you’re up. You are very welcome to chat. Toussaint: I just want to give a shout out to all the men who are representing on the Sister Circle. I believe Lupe is right. Iona, you have to figure out how to come together in unity with your neighbor. Yes you! You’re the one with the complaint. If you don’t you will continue going around the same circle. Your neighbor appears to be reluctant to acknowledge your problem with her. Your best bet is to have a mediator to help you resolve it. You will have to sacrifice taking off work. I know you mentioned earlier that you didn’t want to do that but you may have to. Peace! Trisha: There are a lot of men calling in. I am a bit surprised. We have another caller and she is a woman. Alice welcome to the Circle, are you ready to chat? Alice: Yes, I am ready! I have been trying for ever to get through so just because the men got through don’t mean women aren’t calling because we are. Iona, at the end of the day you have to live at the place you reside so do what you think is best for you. I understand you spoke with your neighbor and you continue to suffer in silence with her lifestyle. I actually don’t think the scheduling idea is a bad one. It’s either that or going to management. Constance We have another caller. Sheena you are very welcome to chat. Sheena: I think the men who spoke on here are full of crap! They sound sexiest and arrogant but I am not surprised. They act like they never heard of the word compassion. You certainly can handle your personal private business and have compassion on others. Put yourself in her shoes. Having children in your home are very dominant factors when you are trying to make sure they get their rest; also your rest as well. Most people would rather have a peaceful night than not. I understand her neighbor doesn’t have any kids but she moved next to someone who does; geez! It would not hurt her neighbor to be a bit more sensitive to the fact that Iona is a mother; trying to raise 2 kids and they don’t need to be unable to sleep because her neighbor chooses to allow men in and out of her house in the wee hours of the night. It’s a choice she can change if she wants. It’s called compromise people! Iona: Thanks so much Sheena. We have one last caller. I believe a Ms. Flame. Welcome Ms. Flame. What a name. Ms. Flame: I can co-sign on a little bit of everything that has been said. Please don’t boo me but I was the woman who would go over to my boyfriend’s house to have our personal time together. At the time, my boyfriend lived next door to a Christian woman in a townhouse. The walls were thin. She always complained that we were too loud. I can admit we did disturb her from having a good night’s sleep. It was totally selfish. I certainly was not raised like that. My man was a stubborn old bull about it. I started feeling guilty about us doing that so I told him to come over to my house or wait until she was not home because she went to church a lot and I know she was praying for both of us. My boyfriend was mad at me when I started encouraging him to respect his neighbor more. It wasn’t because she was a woman. It wasn’t because she was older than us. It wasn’t because she was a Christian. Well, maybe a little bit. It actually was common courtesy and out of respect. Iona, your neighbor does not respect you. If she did she would try to compromise and meet you somewhere in the middle to help resolve the issue. Constance…Kayla…Iona…Trisha…Valeria: That wraps up the circle. Please join us next week for our next Sister Circle Girlfriend Chats! Disclaimer: The opinions and views expressed in all of the characters and the advice is not real. It is fiction. My friend NovelTee has been a guest writer on Sancti-Fly Mama quite a few times. The other day she told me one of her black male friends was going through some issues. He told her that he really needed some positive energy. She wrote the poem below for him. When I read it I asked her if I could share it on SFM. It was so soothing and REAL. I read her poem over and over again. I dedicate this poem to all the black boys and men. I want them to know that they are important to us, they are LOVED, and they are NOT savages. They have a family; mothers, brothers, fathers and sisters who care about THEM; who pray for them. They are the black experience...they live it EVERYDAY! They are human beings and deserve to be treated as such! They are powerful, spiritual and abundant. We believe in them!
Smile because they don't want you to. There is nothing more fascinating to me than to see a handsome, intelligent, spiritual, passionate, informed, black man smiling. Faced with so many obstacles and overcoming stereotypes with your brain and not your braun. Killing them instead with your ability and knowledge. You are a threat to them because you are whole with yourself. You are connected to a higher power that says you can because he wills it so. You are unstoppable. You are a king. Reign and Rule, my love. That is your right. Please feel free to overshare this poem! "Reign and rule my loves...that is your right” Stultification left the nation as the hoi polloi of black women and black girls rocked the BET Black Girls Rock awards show; being their full selves with no mask allowed. The awards show aired last night August 22, 2017. It was hosted by Taraji P. Henson. Yes, I was united in my excitement to witness all those queens uplifting their shine towards each other and the world; showing off all that LOVE! I am still drunk and high from the love. You have to concede throughout the history of black women and historical pain they have endured, black women are impactful, amorous women who remain resilient in love and hope; they’re just too dope! The melanin in their skin encourages them to rise and win because they know they are worthy of the same liberties and opportunities as any other human being. Black Girls Rock against racism+hate. They rock against those who try to silence them and they speak even LOUDER. Black Girls Rock in their ambition, killing all stereotypes to the left and to the right! Black Girls Rock nonstop in their love! Black Girls Rock is not just a statement. It is where longevity meets empowerment; imperative to black women and black girls. Roberta Flack rocked as the Living Legend. She equally represented Sancti-Fly love tunes throughout history. Roberta Flack is a Living Legend Black Girl that Rocks! If she did it, so can you! You can sing the music, write the lyrics and own the studio. Issa Rae is an awkward Black Girl that Rocks Star Power within her community and to all women + girls! "My life changed when I focused on what I was, what I was good at, what I liked most about myself, and what made me stand out." -Issa Rae Suzanne Shank is a Wall Street Shot Caller and a Black Girl that Rocks the responsibility of trillions of dollars as the CEO of Siebert Cisneros Shank & Co., L.L.C., so if you need to soak in some fierceness, just research Suzanne Shank. She did it and so can you! "What others think is my disadvantage is my advantage." -Suzanne Shank According to Solange Black Girls Rock because they are the "most poppin! " Solange is a RockStar woman who walks in her truth and in her flaws as she encourages all sisters and women to do the same. Yara Shahidi took Young, Black and Gifted and made it terrifically delicious. She continues to be surrounded by an overflow of love and mentors. Welcome to some black girl magic on the scene with Maxine. Maxine is a Black Girl that Rocks as the Social Humanitarian. She is not easily intimidated. She will fight for what she believes in, so bring it! Natalie and Derrica Wilson are 2 Black Girls that Rock as Community Change Agents. They help the black community find black and brown children that are missing. Kudos to them for being the only organization who are relentless in their quest to find lost and missing black children. Please freeze as these queens remain on the scene...electrifying Black Girl Magic; better grab it because yes, BLACK GIRLS ROCK! Thank you to all the women honored and Taraji P. Henson! You ROCK!
The Sister Circle Girlfriend Chats is a fictitious online radio show hosted by 5 women who happen to be girlfriends. It is a platform where women come together to support each other during human issues they have in life. They laugh, they cry and they get real girlfriend solutions if they choose to take heed. Sometimes they don't take heed. The sisters sit in a circle each week and talk about the issues they want to discuss. They allow callers to call into their show to share their feelings, concerns or comments. Nothing is off limits!
Valaria is a theater teacher with no kids in her mid-30’s. Iona is an author and copywriter. She is the youngest at 25. She is a single mom with 2 kids. Kayla is a professor and mother of 5 children, two of them being a set of twins. She is 28 years old. Kayla is married. Constance is married with one child. She is a stay at home mom; also a personal trainer by profession and a nurse. Constance is 37 years old. Trisha is in her early 40’s. She is a Sales Executive. She is divorced with grown adult children. Constance starts off the show by talking about her mother-in-law. Her husband always includes his mother in all of their plans...everywhere that they go. She has put up with it for 15 years and she is exhausted now. The chat begins. Constance: Today on our show we are going to talk about an issue that is close to my heart. I pray that my mother-in-law is listening. I have been married for 17 years. I haven’t figured out a strategy for dealing with my mother-in-law. Each and every time my husband and I go out, she is always present. I love her but I need my time alone with my family. I know it is not all of her fault. I talked to my husband about it. I have been unsuccessful with him. I understand she is lonely and single but I would like my private time with my husband and child. Trisha: I remember this issue! Why don’t you set some time aside for you and your mother-in-law. Take her to lunch or to an event, then tell her how you feel. Constance you have to speak up and be honest! Constance: The last time I tried that it blew up in my face. I don’t know what else to do. On my birthday last year I wanted to go to my favorite place to din. My husband said it would be just us. When I arrived at the place his mother was already there because he went and picked her up first. I pulled her to the side to speak with her. In so many words, I told her how I wanted to feel special on my birthday. I asked her if she wouldn’t mind declining sometimes when my husband invites her out with us. She started crying. My husband was upset with me. Iona: Constance, when you got married your husband was supposed to forsake all others for you. I understand your husband doesn’t want his mother to feel left out; I totally get that. When he married you he was supposed to cling to you. One of my cousins started her own online dating service. You should encourage your mother-in-law to join the site. She needs a man girl! She needs to get her own life and leave yours alone. You know I’m telling the gospel truth! Constance: I agree with you Iona. I take my vows very seriously. Sometimes I think she does it on purpose. I know she can see the expressions on my face EVERY TIME I have to see her. Wow, the phones are lighting up. Kayla, do you have anything to say? Valeria: I think your husband should be the one to talk to his mom if you feel some kind of way about his mom always tagging alone with you. Constance:I always tell him that exact thing. He doesn’t want to do it! I think we may be headed to marriage counseling. Kayla: Of course I have a lot to say. I don’t see what the big issue is, Constance. It’s his mother. Didn’t she lose her husband a few years ago? Things like that take time. I think you are being a bit selfish and insensitive. How would you feel if it was you? I am sure there are family members that your husband puts up with. He doesn’t make a huge deal out of it. Iona: Oh lord! Kayla…Kayla! Tune in to listen to what all of our callers have to say. Remember you can call anonymous. Tune in next time (August ) to find out what the audience has to say. What do you think about Constance's mother-in-law? What would you do? Disclaimer: The opinions and views expressed in all of the characters and the advice is not real. It is fiction. Instructional LOVE killed HATE An American Black family and an American White family are vacationing on the beach; each with their only child. White Parents: Excuse me…please help anyone! We are looking for our little boy. He is about 3 years old with blonde hair and blue eyes. Has anyone seen him? He has on tiny swimming shorts. He was just by our side a few seconds ago! (They are desperately searching…) Black Parents: Please help us! We are in a daymare. We don’t know where our baby girl is. She is 3 years old with 2 curly pigtails in her hair. She has on a white pair of swimming shorts. She has no top on. (They are frantically searching…) An angel appears: (The angel brings both parents together) Your children adore each other. Their hearts are pure but yours are not. The four of you have a foison of nasty bacteria in your hearts. Your children are stuck together for this purpose. They were chosen. They can only be pulled apart by your love for each other. This is your chance to be a disciple of love to the WORLD, if you want your kids back separately. The angel guides both parents to where their children are but they understand they cannot touch them. Little white boy & black girl:
Hi mom...hi dad! We are sticking together! THROUGH HISTORY...THROUGH HATE....THROUGH SIN...LOVE ALWAYS WINS! |
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