HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY to all the Butter-Fly Mamas engulfed in their purpose driven visions; making the best decisions for their lives and not giving foolishness any attention. Butter-Fly Mamas eat, drink, and live the difference. The intuition of a mother naturally leaks in love and understanding; influencing the hearts of egos to stop glowing in the dark as they unite in the light to collaborate in the challenge of being their best selves. Butter-Fly Mamas continue to rise and shine despite these perilous times. They are born with a spiritual endurance as mothers.
I know it appears that this is an antiquated adage. You might need a reminder of what you've been taught. Butter-Fly Mamas raised you to treat people the way you want to be treated. Talk to people the way you want to be talked to. If you don't like it, why would you do it to others?
Butter-Fly Mams tell us we have a choice whether we want to be happy or not. Start your day with the choice to be happy. Yes, anything can happen in a given day but it is your attitude that will heal you or hold you captive. Choose to be happy on purpose and good things will always work out for you.
Whatever your feelings are they are yours. If that is how you feel at the time or moment, it is okay. Feelings pass! No one has the authority to tell you how you should feel about something. Don't let anyone invalidate or minimize how you feel. Your experiences matter and you are important! No one can dictate to you about what you've been through!
Don't entertain foolishness! Ignore! Ignore! Ignore them!
Butter-Fly Mamas allow their children to dream big.They don't say dumb things like, "Why do you want to do that?" or "It's impossible!" They encourage all women to think big! When their dreams become fully grown they are visionaries with a plan to execute it.
Dependency comes from a higher power! There is nothing wrong with teaching young girls or other women how to be independent women; to want their own or have their own. The difference between wanting a man and needing a man has to be taught! When you are a married woman it is great to tell your man how much you need and appreciate him but they need to know you can live without them; make it without them. Women have the right to be single if that is their choice. They have the right to add to their spouse by being a helpmate.
Learn from your mistakes and keep going. Pause if you have to! Cry if you must but don't you dare stop! Keep on going! You are going to make it to your destiny; your journey!
Let me say this again! Yes! The people who belong in your life; those who are meant to be will be. Keep on moving and living your life! Butter-Fly Mamas teach us to pray for divine connections. So shall you attract them!
Butter-Fly Mamas believe in themselves and try to pass that on to others; especially their children. They believe in you because you are part of them and THEY KNOW you will succeed at whatever the task is. Believe in yourself, just a little more! I believe in you!
Train yourself mentally to be a calm Butter-Fly Mama. If you are stopped by the police, please be calm. If you are at work and you encounter an unfair situation, be calm. When your kids have done the unbelievable try your best to remain calm and not embarrass yourself or them in public. Calmness is an art worthy of your practice. It is powerful!
Keep a positive mindset at all times. Make sure you surround yourself with positive vibes and your life will be positive. You don't have room for negative energy. Boy bye, girl bye! :)
It is not about anybody else but you. You're doing the best you can do so be careful with how you talk to yourself; how you treat yourself. You will eventually get there. Relax and breathe. Take time out for yourself today!
You're a woman of worth so know your worth. Value yourself and command that others respect your worth; + your space!
Butter-Fly Mamas tell us that we can change the world one mother, daughter, and sister at a time. You're like the major sunshine that others need! They inspire us to do something about a thing if we don't like it. The beautiful thing is we start believing it and we do it! I smell so much change in the air!
Remember you will always need your sisters. No matter what happens in your life, keep those good sisters around and enjoy your time with them. You may be a mother and a wife but you are still an individual.
Don’t allow anyone to take your crown off. If you see another sister or mother with her crown a little crooked or out of shape, help her straighten it out. Remember your inner and outer beauty is unique; like no one else. Your crown belongs on your head at all times. Wear it proudly!
Butter-Fly Mamas urge us to listen to our elders. There are some of us who think we know everything. We won’t listen to anyone else. I plead with you to consider all those warnings and love notes your mother or grandmother gave to you and take heed. I understand you are educated! Your education is incomparable to life experience so listen. I enjoy hanging around my elders. I welcome all the wisdom I can get. Those who have gone through it can tell you how to do it!
Celebrate each other; the women and mothers in your life! Call your mom. Call your grandmother (I miss my Lula)! Give up some of your time and spend it with them! Tell them how much you appreciate them! What about saying "I love you." My aunt Mable is 101 years old and I always tell her I love her when I visit her. She loves to hear it! I have a few friends who don't have their moms present. Don't take yours for granted while they are in the land of the living. If you have to let somethings go, do it! Forgive and let that stuff go! The only thing you have are the memories when your mother is no longer here. Please make your memories count!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE STUNNING BUTTER-FLY MAMAS!
THANKS FOR DOING ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU DO AND FOR SHOWING OTHER S THE RIGHT WAY TOO!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO ALL THE STUNNING BUTTER-FLY MAMAS!
THANKS FOR DOING ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU DO AND FOR SHOWING OTHER S THE RIGHT WAY TOO!
