21 Times YO’ MAN Crossed The Line And Tried To Holla At Me

I just thought I would let you know...

Daddy Yankee was calling me "gasolina mami" in front of his entire crew. He was telling me to come give him a hug. I was trying my best to ignore him; being resistant but Daddy was persistent. I thought it was cool so I did give him a hug. Mr. Yankee did not want to let me go. You know he is married, right? I pleaded with him to let me go! He did not comply! He said no mami, no! He started pulling my hair and trying to get me to take pictures with him. As Sancti-Fly as I am, I was a little embarrassed because I was trying to do my job as a production assistant working on the Barrio Fino album at the time. Just to let you know.
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Oh, how I LOVE this man! I am a huge fan of Don Omar! He knows how much I adore him. I was on the video set with some friends as he did this cover shoot. I was telling him how debonair he looked. I told him he would really look extra fine if he added sun glasses. He asked me to find him a pair. I went back and forth trying to find the perfect fit for him with his stylist. When I finally gave him the pair that made the final cut, he asked that I put them on him…say what! I was totally excited. As I put them on his face he kissed me. Yes, I melted; just to let you know.

Dang, Lamman Rucker I need some space! I know I sound like a broken record to him but this is what I often have to say to him. He is always in my face. He loves to put my face close to his face and just stare at me. If I blink first, he always kisses my face. So you know I blink on purpose…right! Look at him! He is doing it right now! Please beware of the Lamman Rucker stare down; just letting you know.

Taylor Kinney repeatedly begs me to watch him on Chicago Fire as if he doesn’t have enough fans. On this day, he wanted me to come lay down with him. Father, please forgive me of my sins because I did! I usually like to keep him waiting. Just letting you know.

As the world turns, Jesse Soffer earned a role on Chicago P.D on NBC. I was an extra on the show when we first met. Instantly he became attached to the Sancti-Fly High. I love a man in a suit or uniform as well. In light of him knowing how gorgeous he is, he tries to use his looks to have his way with women. He was looking puzzled; trying not to be upset with me because I would not stay with him (he so clingy) after he shot an episode of Chicago PD. He told me if I did not stay with him, I could not be an extra on Chicago PD. I had to go! I mean, I do have a Sancti-Fly life! He tried to block me from being an extra on Chicago PD. Brother Jesse that was so low. Just letting you know.
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LaRoyce Hawkins wanted to take me dancing. I said no because of all the complications I encountered with Jesse Soffer. You know they work together on Chicago PD. This brother must have abused his police powers because I saw him at a spot where I went dancing with my girls. He was there…like stalking me! I doubt if it was a coincidence. He sat there the entire time just watching me dance…weird. When I ignored him he took his shirt off! I am just letting you know.

Morris Chestnut is a trip! He was trying to hold back his tears because he saw me get on a private jet with Nas. That’s right I said Nas. Morris has a lot of nerve. I was at an after party and he was there. He wanted me to go somewhere with him (not saying where) and I told him it was very inappropriate! Just to let you know.

Just because you are a celebrity man, does not mean every woman will cater to your status. I didn’t! Well not this time (lol). My cousin was working as a stylist for Mr. Woodside so that is how we met. Mr.  D. B. Woodside was trying to get me to take pictures with him in a chair like I was his girl. He kept saying “come on baby girl” and I looked around the room in disbelief. I had just met him. Why would he even think I would; I don’t know why. I quickly told him no! They always front with a great big smile when their pride is crushed. He didn’t like my rejection, just to let you know.

I gave Terrance Howard my number to see if I could talk about us producing a show together after running into him at an awards show. When I found out he was on something else, I told him to please stop calling me. Terrance will not take no for an answer. He keeps on calling me! When I don’t answer he goes crazy. I am sure he has plenty-many ladies to call, just to let you know.

It is such a small world. I had to close a few deals in New York one day and ran into Laz at my hotel. I did fight the urge not to engage in the naughtiness Mr. Laz Alonzo wanted me to join him in. Yes, he wanted me to join him in his bed. I knew he had a steady female in his life at the time. I told him no! He had the nerve to look at me like I stole something from him; all confused! I am just letting you know about your man...girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl!

Joseph Morgan can bite me anytime as Klaus on the Originals. I am such a fan of his, although they took the Originals off the air. I’m telling you, these male actors have the biggest egos ever. Mr. Morgan thought he was going to bite me while I was sitting down at a private beach party filled with celebrities. He wanted me to join him in his chair; to sit in his lap. Of course I said no thank you! I am just letting you know about your man! SMH!

Michael Marlarkey was flirting with me; giving me the look like he was available. Each time I moved he gave me that look! He even put his private number on my autographed poster when I bumped into him at a birthday party. I loved him on the Vampire Diaries. I knew he was not single. I tried my best to avoid his traveling eyes. It was not easy; just letting you know.

Look at those eyes! Ian Somerhalder played the character of Damon on the Vampire Diaries. I am heartbroken to know they took the show off the air. All I could say is Lord, please have mercy on me when I saw Damon on the Vampire Diaries. I always used to tell him to bite me in my mind! I think Ian was a little bothered by me talking to Mr. Marlarkey in light of them both being on the show and signing personalized posters for me. I ran into both of them at the same event. Ian detained me in a corner and stared in my face. I loved it! No, I wasn't trying hard to get away at all. Sorry, I am just letting you know! Why wasn't you there with yo' man?

Denzel Washington is so funny! I was walking pass him in my skinny jeans at a fundraiser he was at. He was trying his best not to make eye contact with me, but he did. Our eyes locked for a few minutes then when Pauletta came, that lock was quickly blocked. I walked away. I am just letting you know.

Lance Gross is a man who tries to come across really sneaky. I had to let him know that I do NOT mix business with pleasure. I am just not that kind of lady.  He thought all women did. I assured him we all do NOT! We hosted a show together one evening. He wanted me to go home with him. I could not believe it. He looks kind of innocent but he is not. I am just letting you know. 

Michael Ealy is such a character. Please don't let his baby blue eyes lure you into wrong. I was at a juice bar ordering my juice and he came in. He was in the car with a lady who appeared to be his significant other. This did not stop him from trying to get my name and number. I asked him why he didn't bring his lady friend in with him. He got quiet. I surmise he didn't think I noticed, but I did! He just smiled. His smile didn't work on me. I had to turn him down. I am just letting you know. You were just a few seconds away in his car doing this incident. You see how they are? SMH!

You know Idris Elba has a girlfriend? This brother saw me out at a private event. Yes, lots of famous folks were in the building. If it is not Don Omar I am not impressed. Anyway, why did Idris ask me to touch his chest. I was like are you serious! He was so serious! He was like come on! Touch it! Touch it! He had girls all over him but I wasn't one of them. He really needs to concentrate on his girlfriend. It was kind of embarrassing for the both of them. I don't know if he had too much to drink of if he is just naturally weird. I am just letting you know.

Gary Dourdan is the number one reason why they say if you are working in the entertainment field, make sure you are spiritually rooted and grounded in God. You have to be strong! You must have a prayer life! I would strongly urge you to keep in contact with those who can hold you accountable. There is so much temptation trying to rule you. You must have a NO...NO...NO spirit! Especially when you know it is wrong to do or against everything you stand for and believe in. I can't even mention in detail the request of this brother towards me. I am just letting you know that I told him NO!

​Boris Kodjoe always has women stalking him. I was working at an awards show after party. I was on my way home. Boris was bored and he was trying to get me to go away to another party with him. I could not believe it. He is lucky that he is married. I would have took him up on his offer but I could not do it. I was totally shocked not to see him with his wife. I told him he needed to go home to his wife. I bet you can smell all kind of perfume on him because he had a variety of women on him. I am just letting you know.

Djimon Hounson may not be with Kimora anymore but he was certainly with everyone else. He must have got it twisted! My girlfriend is an actress and a top model in the industry. She had a photo shoot she asked me to accompany her to and Djimon was there with his crew. Women were lined up to get hugs from him since he had his shirt off. There was a long line. He noticed me standing to the side not paying him any attention. He asked me if I wanted a hug. I said sure. When I got close to him he didn't want to let me go. It did feel good though. Then he had the nerve to whisper sweet nothings in my ear...boy bye!  I am just letting you know! Don't let his looks fool you!

Yes, it all ends with Don Omar. I am crazy about him! He thinks that I am going to keep quiet. I don't think that I will! I am just letting you know.


This all happened in my mind, just to let all of you know! Hey it's Women History Month and International Women's Day. A woman can dream...right? :0)