It is time for us to stop using and abusing the latest phrases of expression. Wait, or maybe it is time for some us to get very familiar with these new catchy words and to began using them. It all started in 2018. Then, more groovy words kept on coming in 2019. I know we had some cool phrases to use and abuse in 2020 but I probably missed that boat. Please, make it make sense! How in the world did I go an entire year without giving you guys the latest group of words that were so over the top in COVID-19 vocabulary last year? If missing last year's words was a post on SFM. Shake my head at myself! Well, its the motto of the words for me that compels me to write about it. I surmise, Ima need you guys to pay more attention to all of these caliente words. You will most likely hear these remarks on social media a lot! You know you'll hear them out in public as well!

MAKE IT MAKE SENSE

​Um, so you want me to drive to your house and pick up your little girl to take her over to her friends house? You do know I live 20 minutes away from you! Where are the other four children in your home who can legally drive her to the location, that is 5 minutes away from your house? No! I am not doing that! Girl, make it make sense! What did you say? You're tired! I just got off of work the same time you did! If you are not using this term, please politely add it to your sayings. This is one of my favorites! When some people do things you just can't understand or try to involve you in their foolishness, "Make It Make Sense" kind of soothes your brain. This scenario doesn't make sense, right?
 
​IF CHANGING THE NARRATIVE WAS A PERSON 

This way of speaking is widely used on social media. It is an interesting way to make a point about something you dislike or perhaps even like. You will usually notice people comparing their own homemade idioms to a person. Of course the verbs and adjectives must be in place. You have to start your first word with if, and you have to end it with person. This is very prevalently used. If changing the story or narrative was a person melanated people would be thriving 100% in everything this world has to offer. Don't get me wrong, we are! A lot of us are. My point is that when you have wicked people who had a head start in killing and stealing our history, plus controlling the portrayal of our history, it makes a huge difference economically, spiritually, politically, and medically! 

ITS THE KISS ON THE CHEEKS FOR ME 🥰

This one right here is another one of my favorites! Let's get very mushy! This is such a well-liked frame of words. Its used in the most cutest, adorable ways. Ok, you have a grandmother and grandfather who are still in the land of the living. They are the epitome of black love that rocks! You put a picture of them on your Instagram account of their 60th wedding anniversary. They’re both in their early 90s but they look more like 80. Your entire family is blessed by their wisdom and love. You aspire to have a loving, fruitful marriage just like them. You will! In the picture you show grandpa bending over to kiss your grandmother in the sweet way they always are towards each other. It’s magical and you get thousands of views and likes. The compliments and comments on your page are priceless, wrapped in nothing but positive energy. One person says it’s the kiss on the cheeks for me! Always start this phrase with "its the" and end with, 'for me." Got it! Okay, very good! Use and abuse these words!

​IMA NEED YALL/YOU 

If you want to tell anybody a piece of your mind without using your lump sum of dazzling words (profanity) or want to pitch your point to them, utter this locution. So, you’re in the car with your twin girls taking them to a family birthday party. They are super duper excited about being around their family because they like parties. They haven’t seen their little cousins in a long time. Meanwhile you hear them popping their gum or chewing it in an irritating way. This is what you say. You tell’em (tell them), Ima need yall to stop popping and smacking that gum, right now! The end! They stop. If it is said effectively you should only have to speak it once. Remember when you use these particular words it is a must to exercise your authority. Here are a few more examples: Ima need you to go clean up your mess, right now! Ima need you to stay out of my business, and lose my number. Ima need you to learn how to cook! Lastly, Ima need yall to always come by and visit SFM! 😉

Happy love day to Ms. Lula! Life just isn't the same without my grandmother. I sometimes wonder if she was still here, what topics would she speak on? You know she read the Sunday paper every week. What would I hear coming out of her pouty mouth lol, because Ms. Lula was a real G (gangster)? Just kidding, my Lula was part angel and half gangster! 😂 

I do know my granny Lula would have way too much to say about our young folks carjacking. I already know questions regarding the parents would play a huge part in the conversation. Usually, the presence or absence of a male figure is imperative during the adolescence of young men trying to find themselves and their manhood. The landmark trials affecting melanated communities, like Arbery, George Floyd and Botham Jean would have Ms. Lula ready to weigh in on all of the evidence! Joe Biden and Trump would not be off the hook with Ms. Lula. They would also get some of her talk time.

​My cousins and I grew up saying the number one family phrase, "Are you going over granny Lula house for the holiday, this weekend, or to eat dinner?" Or we always would reminisce about those crazy fun times we created at her house by saying, "Remember that time at granny Lula house when this or that happen?" This is still prevalent and a very popular phrase we continue to use coupled by the best memories. Remember that memories are all you have as I often state in my birthday prayers. Make them count. If you don't, you're going to wish you did after they are gone!

Today on December 16, Ms. Lula would have turned 99 years young. Her DNA is boldly stitched in all of her bloodline. She has a rich long legacy. I'm honored to play a role in it. It's amazingly awesome how one woman can give birth to many generations. Think about it! Grandmothers are so powerful. You never know how their bloodline will multiply over into bigger and ground-breaking territories. We are so thankful to have had one of the funniest, and toughest ladies graced to be our grandmother. We are extremely blessed to have shared time and space with her. Through thick and thin, ups and downs, and good times plus bad times, my granny Lula absolutely showed us that family comes first, and family is very important. Thanks Yahweh! Ms. Lula is our history, our love and our unity!

Just Like Dad

Jaqurio is 15 years old and a sophomore in high-school. He is very active in sports and is the vice-president of the student council. He is very popular but well-equipped to handle it all. His parents are educators and he really looks up to his dad. Jaqurio often tells his peers that the men in his family are his examples and he shares the men in his family with his friends who do not have men in their lives. As a young man he prides himself on loving and respecting females. His two best friends (Nelson and Dejuan) look up to him!

(Walking to school together)

Nelson: Man, did yall see Tamika Jenkins ass in that cheerleading skirt last night at the game? That girl is blessed. She is mine, no cobbs.

Dejuan: Hell yes she is! She's too tall for me but if I was interested you wouldn't  have her, I would!

Jaqurio:
Yes, that queen is most definitely a blessed young sister. She smart too! She is in my biology class. Beautiful smile and a "gold mind"...that's my kind of lady.

Nelson:
Jaqurio ever since I've known you, I always admire how much respect you give to these girls. Even when they don't respect themselves, you still give it to them.
 
Dejuan: 
Yeah, that's what's up Jaqurio! I like that in you bro! 

Jaqurio: 
Thanks guys! It’s just how I was raised! I truly adore the women in my family. They are the backbones of our tribe. My dad is my example. My dad tells my little sister Jaslina how worthy she is daily. My older sister Jacqueline is 23 years old and he often affirms her worth as well. Jackie got a full ride to attend college when she left. My parents didn't have to pay nothing. You will be blown away by how my dad treats my mom! Man, I love and appreciation my dad so much. I have been groomed to respect myself, my elders, and the women in my family. They are our queens! We treat them like it! 

Nelson:
What does your dad say to Jaslina? What?

Jaqurio:
He tells her all the time how much he loves her and that she is his world. We all understand that the reason my dad is going back to school to get his PhD is to prepare for when we go to college. We understand that everything my dad does is to provide for my mom and us. He says it all the time.
 
Dejuan:
Man that was so beautiful. That is great. Your dad is always inviting me and Nelson over to mentoring events and all things positive. Your dad rocks!
 
Nelson: 
Yo’ I’m still stuck on the “she is my world” part. I have to use that on the ladies. No, but seriously man, that was dope. Your dad has always been there for me because my dad ain’t around. 

Jaqurio:
My dad tells my little sister and my oldest sister how important they are all the time. They will have healthier relationships. That is why I am who I am because of my dad and my mom. Just because your dad is not in your life doesn't excuse you from knowing better and doing better. You too Dejuan. You got both parents in your life just like I do. Our parents want the best from us! I am going to try my best to be my best and do exceptional things.  Have a good day! See yall later tonight! 

Nelson: 
Yeah, this party about to be lit!

Dejuan:
I'm late for class, see yall tonight! 

This father tells his little melanated girl..."she is truly my world" 😊

His Sweet Thang

Shoshana and Kara are childhood friends. They went to grade school together and college. They both have 3 brothers each, making them the only daughters of their families. They are the sisters they never had. Kara has all boys, but they are all teenagers. Shoshana has all girls. She has 3 teenagers and a five-year-old son named Mateo. Mateo doesn’t like to be at home for school. He keeps asking his mom to take him over all of his girlfriend’s houses to play with them. He misses being around his friends but understands why he can’t go play with them. Kara comes over and Mateo is extremely happy.

(Kara enters the house)

Shoshana:
Hey K! Where are the boys? I thought they were coming over.

Kara:
Hey Shosh! Girl, they got an attitude with me because I told them they couldn’t have their friends over in my house. They called me old fashioned and decided to stay in the house with their dad.

Shoshana:
Dang! It’s been an entire year, I really wanted to see them. What fragrance is that you have on? It is lighting up my entire house, oh my goodness, it smell so good!

Kara:
Oh, it’s that new “Black Girls Rock” perfume by Beverly Bond. Where is Mateo? I’ve been dying to see him. Frank told John they wanted to place him in the second grade. Wow, he is so smart!

Shoshana: (Whispering to Kara)
K, he has been in and out of the kitchen hiding like I don’t notice, like you're a stranger. He is such a little man. We declined to put him ahead at this time. My baby is going to the first grade. Time really does fly by. I am going to get some of that perfume tomorrow!

Kara: (LOL)
Shosh, I know I saw him! I knew that was him. I wasn’t sure if I should have said something to you but when I went to the ladies’ room, I saw Teo in the hallway staring at me. Then, when I called his name, he looked at me and smiled then he ran away like a ghost. He was also doing the same thing when we were in the kitchen, just staring and smiling at me.

Shoshana:
Ok, Mateo, come on in here right now! Explain yourself, please!
(Mateo comes running into the kitchen where Shoshana and Kara are)

Mateo:
Well, I need to speak to Ms. Kara alone. We need some privacy.

Shoshana:
Wait, say what! Absolutely not!

Kara: (picking up Mateo)
What’s going on Teo? You were 4 years old last time I saw you. I missed you! I am so proud of you Mateo. Why were you smiling at me and running away?

Mateo:
I missed you too! You smell so sweet and you look so pretty. I was going to ask you out, but you’ll have to pay. I haven’t been around any pretty girls in a long time since the pandemic. Seeing you makes me feel better. Mom won't let me go see all of my girlfriends. So since I can’t take my mom out I wanted to ask you.

Kara:
Of course we can go out together. l’ll drive, pay, and pick you up.

Mateo:
Great! So you're going to be my sweet thang! I have to run and tell my dad!

(Laughing out loud)
Kara & Shoshana

In 2021 some you guys have been extremely blessed to have gigantic screen TVs. The family and friend gatherings are always at your house because you and your family are wrapped up in so much warmth and hospitality. As we enter into these last weeks, please take some time to unwind, be selfish with yourself for at least 2 hours and watch these Sancti-Fly Movies.

Colin Black AND White

​Unfortunately, the more things have not changed, the more they just remain the same! Colin Kaepernick's life in this Netflix movie is evident that the history of black and white people still hunts us. It's only because America has not fully dealt with the fabric of racism and white supremacy threaded in it! This is a film you must watch. This film shows you a lot of the things melanated boys have to go through. Can you imagine growing up in a family where your culture is not the same and they can't relate to anything you are going through? Your hair, your food and experiences with being a black human being can be overlooked if the people raising you do not understand your struggles. The movie is excellent at breaking it down for those who need enlightenment.

The more our history is hidden the more we seek, search, and find out about it. I am so thankful and proud of our sister, Olive Elaine Morris. Ms. Morris was born in Jamaica but most of her legacy and damage to white supremacy are indelibly marked in the UK. Olive parents migrated to South London when she was a nine year old child. Olive was drawn to equal rights for her people at a young age!  As a black teen, she joined the British Black Panther organization to bring relief and equality to her people in the UK, specifically to black women. Olive Morris was passionate about ensuring melanated people were free from racial injustice and oppression. Olive E. Morris died at the age of 27 doing what she loved, without fear. Olive Morris definitely had the feisty signature of a melanated black woman crafted in her heart for the battle. As a community activist, Olive E. Morris hunger and thirst to unleash all of her black excellence into the universe towards liberty and justice grew. Olive Morris created her own platforms like The Brixton Black Woman's Group and the Organisation of African Women and Asian Decent to combat the unruly cycles of racism. Olive E. Morris did not like her name but I want you to remember that name (Olive Elaine Morris)!

​Olive Elaine Morris is inspirational warfare just like you and all the other freedom fighters today. Thankfully, she did not sit down, wait around, or remain passive in an effort to obtain liberation for black women. Olive Elaine Morris was a victim of  police brutality which did not stop her magic. It only fueled her movement! Morris founded many organizations and remained proactive during her time here. If she was alive today she would be that woman who would be raising lots of hell about how they are arresting melanated girls and boys at 8 and 5 years old. Just like you, she would always speak out against police brutality especially when a black man tries to convey that he is a paraplegic but isn't given the benefit of belief. Instead he is treated like his life does not matter and throne around like a piece of trash. I believe that if Olive was here she would've joined forces with some American organizations to demand policy is changed. Police officers who often engage in violation of their oath would have their pensions taken away. I bet all of that brutality will stop. This is why it is imperative to acknowledge women like Olive Elaine Morris. When they start, our resistance can't stop and it won't stop!

Olive Morris cousin, Ms. Annette Pateman speaks candidly about Olive life, her education, and activism. This proves how our struggles of oppression is a nation to nation problem. It also teaches us how black people fought back and resisted their colonizers from tampering with their freedoms. It illustrates how we always have to continue rising above white supremacy and against it!

August came by to encourage you to live your best new beginning! Numerology has significantly been telling your story all along. You just have to pay attention to higher vibrations. August represents new beginnings because it is in the 8 month. The number 8 brings newness! August is also dazzling hot! Our skins are kissed by the twist of the sun in warm winds. August is counting on you to do something constructive and new. Go ahead! Do it! You will succeed in it! May miracles invade the lives of all the beautiful people born in the month of August. May goodness prevail over any and all darkness in their lives. I emphasize this statement for a full cup of August bliss!

The fight to legalize our freedoms most certainly continues on the menu for black folks or melanated people to be fully treated as equal. This case is so not settled nor finalized. We are still waiting for the part when "liberty and justice" for all of Yah's children begins to start. Your free meals and great tasting free treats are waiting for you this month. Although our society is changing and opening back up again, please be mindful to use caution. Coco (Corona virus) is still trying to hang around. I want to give a special shout-out to all the men and women, that have birthdays in August who are locked up. You matter and I am thinking about ALL of you.

Start this Sancti-Fly Prayer with the basics. Cover the August birthdays in your family. Pray for their health, pray for their strength, and protection for them and their families. Please pray for them daily! In addition to that, don't forget to pray about their level of spiritual maturity. Happy birthday to all of the Sancti-Fly Mamas, Papas, plus the young people in this new month of August 2021. ​

HEALTH AND STRENGTH
​
Father Yah, thank you for a praying spirit. Thank you for preserving the lives of these 2021 AUGUST birthdays (love days). Only your spirit shall reign, rule, and dominate their day. Nothing else shall be able to stand. Thank you for being the perfect beginning and ending of their strength as they wake and sleep in peace. Yah, as you blow your daily strength into these August birthdays' hands, legs, and joints, let them know it is your spirit that gives them the ability to lift, to eat, sit, and to clothe themselves. Thank you for loading these birthday celebrants with your daily benefits. Thank you Yahweh for being the author and completion of their faith to believe, to drown and to bleed in all the divine decrees promised towards their dreams. You make ways to heal every day openly and secretly as you breathe on the August birthdays (love days). Thank you Father for yielding an increase of healing their way as we use our energies to kill sickness to death and release healing over the lives of these August love days. Thank you Yah for letting these precious August birthdays know how rich and thick your refuge of strength is. So shall they bask in it; physically and mentally. I praise you, I lift you up and I exalt you for always taking care of these August birthdays. They shall be more courageous in this new season and not dismayed. Especially on their love days! If they tilt slightly to the left in weak, thank you for your hand turning them over in the position of strength. If they are faint, blow on them and replace it with your mercy, grace, and faith. These August birthdays shall remain firm and sweetly steadfast come what may. Let a thick portion of them know boldly that with you, "all things (strength and healing)"... and the other abundant portion of them know "are really possible." Thank you for letting these August birthdays (love days) know that healing and strength was meant for them! All souls who are standing in the way of these August 2021 breakthroughs shall be quickly removed! Thank you Yah for consuming these August birthdays with an extra dose of positive energy, the strongholds of faith, and a victorious mindset to take over their lives this month; the rest of this year! 

PROTECTION

Thank you Father Yahweh for guarding their ways and keeping them each and everyday day as your focus of protection. Let their enemies be ashamed and brought to a mutual confusion who rejoice over their life adversities. The hand of the wicked shall not drive them away. They shall soar higher and win their race. Nothing shall stop or block them. No racism, no sexism and no classism. Let the black man's burden (racism) and the white man's shame (racism) die, be thou removed, STOP! In order for true liberty and justice for all to ring! Every negative form of energy, carjacking and witchcraft spirits against these August birthdays shall be entered into their own hearts. Their enemies bows shall be broken all over these August birthdays lives. A thousands shall fall by their sides and ten thousand at their right hands but it (viruses, sickness) shall/will NOT come near these August birthdays (love days). Thank you Yah for your protection covenant covering these August birthdays (love days) and I pleasantly extend this prayer to all of their love ones! Thank you Father Yahweh for giving your angels charge over these August birthdays' lives in the light and especially when they travel in the darkness. Let traveling mercies be their shadow. Yah bless them! I touch and agree with the saints of your universe that your spirit continue to rule the raging of the sea in all of the August birthdays; when its waves rise, Yah, you still them. Thank you Yah for slaying those wicked thoughts before any and all of their foul ugly weapons try to form for or against these love days (birthdays). Those spirits shall stumble, fall, fail, and die and the individuals born in the 8 month of August shall escape all the evil bows and darts. Arise Yahweh, in all of their  business, their streets, and in their homes, their visions. Let all of their enemies be scattered into your presence. I command all evil spirits be removed and cast down; carefully, precisely destroyed with a double destruction who dare try to do harm over the lives of these August birthdays. Thank you Yah for pleading the  causes of these August love days and fighting against those who fight against them for no reason. You shall be their shield and buckler and stand up for these lovely August birthdays! Thank you father! We are not playing nice with negative, demonic spirits over here! You will flee! Incidentally, you have no spiritual power over them (us)!

Spiritual Maturity

Let their mouths speak wisdom and their tongues talk of justice. We know your people are everywhere and needed in all things. Thank you for positioning these August birthdays to inherit the land you promised them. Let your counsel be the consumption of these August birthdays and their bloodlines for generations to come. Let the gift of prayer be stuck on the tablets of their hearts as they often yearn to desire a praying spirit. Thank you for their children's children trusting in you. In your light they shall see the true light! Thank you Yahweh for being so  merciful unto all of the August birthdays. Thank you Yah for personalizing their blessings specifically to their individual needs and causing your face to shine up on them right now! So shall they be full of determination to seek your truth. Let their hope be only in you father Yah. Bless your holy name Yahweh. You are too worthy Yah! Thank you Yah for your goodness in the lives of these August love day, birthdays! Thank you for your dominion over all of their concerns and your vibration having its perfect way in all of their lives. Thank you for giving these birthdays a mind to thirst for your righteousness so they can continue to season the earth in their spiritual gifts; filled with the riches of sacrifice and a made-up mind. So shall the word of Yah abide like a consuming fire in each of their hearts to fight for their maturity, purpose, and destinies. May they all receive a heart of thanks and repentance, plus truth to be their shadow in the mornings and at of course at night. Yahweh, bless all the August birthdays with something extra special. Thank you Yah for building these men, women, and children up to bear much fruit. They shall all be smothered in abundance! Thank you father Yah for sweetly partitioning an overflow of your understanding sweet knowledge, and wisdom, coupled with a heavy dose of discernment in the lives of these August love days. As you teach and lead them into their destiny, they shall flourish in your encouragement. They shall be surrounded by an oracle of your love as they slay anything that gets in the way of your plan for their lives. 

This phrase may appear to be overused but it is true. This is why I repeat it every month. "Life is a long shadow of short!" Love appears to be way too small a lot of the times. Therefore, I delegate my love to all of my family and friends who rock stronger than the wind by doing these birthday memes. I sincerely enjoy doing it. Memories are all you have when your loved ones are no longer with you. If you haven't noticed (where you been), we are experiencing more death and crime in this season. Tell those you love that you love them! What are you waiting for? It is time! This is why I get overly united in my Sancti-Fly love and birthday excitement, in light of being surrounded by so much love, therefore I give love back. If your love day (birthday) is in August, you already know I will be celebrating you too! I adore stalking my family and friends every year with good old fashioned birthday love day creations (3 purple links). I am thankful to show love to the love days (birthdays) of August while they are in the land of the living! Stop taking your loved ones for granted in 2021 and in the years to come if they are around! It won't be the same without them around and you know it, so now is the time to engage in love. You can certainly love them from afar if that is necessary. I repeat, now is the time to say I'm sorry and amend the situations. You will feel so much better when you work it all out. Do not wait until too late!

​​​Prayer is a BEAUTIFUL birthday gift to give to YOUR loved ones who were born in the month of AUGUST! To all the intercessors who are praying with me, thank you! Your prayers matter! Especially during these times we are living in.​

Do you remember, the 8th day of September? Well of course you do! Okay I'm about to hit you with those lyrics: ba de ya, say that you remember! Ba de ya, dancing in September. I wish love on your mind to keep you healthy and kind. All the fantasy football lovers are making their way to the front of the stage to kick back and relax. Cooler weather won't make things better but it sets the tone for change. September love is in the air. May miracles invade the lives of all the 
beautiful people born in the month of September. May goodness prevail over any and all darkness in their lives. I emphasize this statement for a full cup of September bliss! 

​The fight to legalize our freedoms most certainly continues on the menu for black folks or melanated people to be fully treated as equal. This case is so not settled nor finalized. Each generation will have to fight for it! We are still waiting for the part when "liberty and justice" for all of Yah's children begins to start. Your free
meals and great tasting free treats are waiting for you this month. Coco (Corona virus) is still trying to hang around so please be mindful of her. I want to give a special shout-out to all the men and women, that have birthdays in this ninth month of September who are locked up. You matter and you KNOW I am thinking about ALL of you.

Start this Sancti-Fly Prayer with the basics. Cover the September birthdays in your family. Pray for their health, pray for their strength, and protection for them and their families. Please pray for them daily! In addition to that, don't forget to pray about their level of spiritual maturity. Happy birthday to all of the Sancti-Fly Mamas, Papas, plus the young people in this new month of September 2021.

 HEALTH AND STRENGTH
​
Father Yah, thank you for a praying spirit. Thank you for preserving the lives of these 2021 SEPTEMBER birthdays (love days). Only your spirit shall reign, rule, and dominate their day. Nothing else shall be able to stand. Thank you for being the perfect beginning and ending of their strength as they wake and sleep in peace. Yah, as you blow your daily strength into these September birthdays' hands, legs, and joints, let them know it is your spirit that gives them the ability to lift, to eat, sit, and to clothe themselves. Thank you for loading these birthday celebrants with your daily benefits. Thank you Yahweh for being the author and completion of their faith to believe, to drown and to bleed in all divine decrees promised towards their dreams. You make ways to heal every day openly and secretly as you breathe on the September birthdays (love days). Thank you Father for yielding an increase of healing their way as we use our energies to kill sickness to death and release healing over the lives of these September love days. Thank you Yah for letting these precious September birthdays know how rich and thick your refuge of strength is. So shall they bask in it; physically and mentally. I praise you, I lift you up and I exalt you for always taking care of these September birthdays. They shall be more courageous in this new season and not dismayed. Especially on their love days! If they tilt slightly to the left in weak, thank you for your hand turning them over in the position of strength. If they are faint, blow on them and replace it with your mercy, grace, and faith. These brave September birthdays shall remain firm and sweetly steadfast come what may. Let a thick portion of them know boldly that with you, "all things (strength and healing)"... and the other abundant portion of them know "are really possible." Thank you for letting these September birthdays (love days) know that healing and strength was meant for them! All souls who are standing in the way of these September 2021 breakthroughs shall be quickly removed! Thank you Yah for consuming these September birthdays with an extra dose of positive energy, the strongholds of faith, and a victorious mindset to take over their lives this month; the rest of this year! 

PROTECTION

Thank you Father Yahweh for guarding their ways and keeping them each and everyday day as your focus of protection. Let their enemies be ashamed and brought to a mutual confusion who rejoice over their life adversities. The hand of the wicked shall not drive them away. They shall soar higher and win their race. Nothing shall stop or block them. No racism, no sexism and no classism. Let the black man's burden (racism) and the white man's shame (racism) die, be thou removed, STOP! In order for true liberty and justice for all to ring! Every negative form of energy, carjacking and witchcraft spirits against these September love days (birthdays) shall be entered into their own hearts. Their enemies bows shall be broken all over these September birthdays lives. A thousands shall fall by their sides and ten thousand at their right hands but it (viruses, sickness) shall
NOT come near these September birthdays (love days). Thank you Yah for your protection covenant covering these September birthdays (love day). I pleasantly extend this prayer to all of their love ones! Thank you Father Yahweh for giving your angels charge over these September birthdays' lives in the light and most certainly when they travel in the darkness. Let traveling mercies be their shadow. Yah bless them! I touch and agree with the saints of your universe that your spirit continue to rule the raging of the sea in all of the September birthdays; when its waves rise, Yah, you still them. Thank you Yah for slaying those wicked minds before any and all of their foul ugly weapons try to form for or against these love days (birthdays). Those spirits shall stumble, fall, fail, and die. Individuals born in the 9 month of September shall escape all the evil bows and darts. Arise Yahweh, in all of their business, their streets, and in their homes, their visions. Let all of their enemies be scattered into your presence. I command all evil darts, and all foul spirits be removed and cast down; carefully, precisely destroyed with a double destruction who dare try to do harm over the lives of these September birthdays. Thank you Yah for pleading the causes of these love days and fighting against those who fight against them for no reason. You shall be their shield and buckler and stand up for these lovely September birthdays! Thank you father! We are not playing nice with negative, demonic spirits over here! You will flee! Incidentally, you have no spiritual power over them (us)!

Spiritual Maturity

Let their mouths speak wisdom and their tongues talk of justice. We know your people are everywhere and needed in all things. Thank you for positioning these September birthdays to inherit the land you promised them. Let your counsel be the consumption of these September birthdays and their bloodlines for many folks smoking hope; generations to come. Let the gift of prayer be stuck on the tablets of their hearts as they often yearn to desire a praying spirit. Thank you for their children's children trusting in you. In your light they shall see the true light! Thank you Yahweh for being so  merciful unto all of the September birthdays. Thank you Yah for personalizing their blessings specifically to their individual needs and causing your face to shine up on them right now! So shall they be full of grave determination to seek your truth. Let their hope be only in you father Yah. Bless your holy name Yahweh. You are too worthy Yah! Thank you Yah for your good- ness in the lives of these September love day, birthdays! Thank you for your dominion over all of their concerns and your vibration having its perfect way in all of their lives. Thank you for giving these birthdays a mind to thirst for your glory and righteousness so they can continue to season the earth in their spiritual gifts; filled with the riches of sacrifice and a made-up mind. So shall the word of Yah abide like a consuming fire in each of their hearts to fight for their maturity, purpose, and destinies. May they all receive a heart of thanks and repentance, plus truth to be their shadow in the mornings and at of course at night. Yahweh, bless all the September birthdays with something extra special. Thank you Yah for building these men, women, and children up to bear much fruit. They shall all be smothered in abundance! Thank you father Yah for sweetly partitioning an overflow of your understanding sweet knowledge, and wisdom, coupled with a heavy dose of discernment in the lives of these September love days. As you teach and lead them into their destiny, they shall flourish in your encouragement. They shall be surrounded by an oracle of your love as they slay anything that gets in the way of your plan for their lives. 

This phrase may appear to be overused but it is true. This is why I repeat it every month. "Life is a long shadow of short!" Love appears to be way too small a lot of the times. Therefore, I delegate my love to all of my family and friends who rock stronger than the wind by doing these birthday memes. I sincerely enjoy doing it. Memories are all you have when your loved ones are no longer with you. If you haven't noticed (where you been), we are experiencing more death and crime in this season. Tell those you love that you love them! What are you waiting for? It is time! This is why I get overly united in my Sancti-Fly love and birthday excitement, in light of being surrounded by so much love, therefore I give love back. If your love day (birthday) is in September, you already know I will be celebrating you too! I adore stalking my family and friends every year with good old fashioned birthday love day creations (3 purple links). I am thankful to show love to the love days (birthdays) of September while they are in the land of the living! Stop taking your loved ones for granted in 2021 and in the years to come if they are around! It won't be the same without them around and you know it, so now is the time to engage in love. You can certainly love them from afar if that is necessary. I repeat, now is the time to say I'm sorry and amend all those situations. You will feel so much better when you work it all out. Do not wait until too late!

​​​Prayer is a BEAUTIFUL birthday gift to give to YOUR loved ones who were born in the month of SEPTEMBER! To all the intercessors who are praying with me, thank you! Your prayers matter! Especially during these times we are living in.​

It is time to say goodbye to those haute short skirts and outfits that showed off your beautiful legs! Or those tight tee shirts that stopped all the females in their tracks when you walked by. Welcome to October where political shenanigans are at its peak but the weather in the Midwest is perhaps bitter sweet. As we roll on into the fall I along with other melanated people are demanding accountability and justice for black lives that do matter. Remember you still have time to tighten
up your goals, live your nest life and put in the work for the peace and lifestyle you want. 

​The fight to legalize our freedoms most certainly continues on the menu for black folks or melanated people to be fully treated as equal. This case is so not settled nor finalized. Each generation will have to fight for it! We are still waiting for the part when "liberty and justice" for all of Yah's children begins to start. Your free
meals and great tasting free treats are all yours for October. Coco (Corona virus) is still trying to hang around so please be mindful of her. I want to give a special shout-out to all the human beings (men and women), that have birthdays in this tenth month of October who are locked up. You really do matter and you are always in our thoughts and prayers. I am thinking about ALL of you.

Start this Sancti-Fly Prayer with the basics. Cover the October birthdays in your family. Pray for their health, pray for their strength, and protection for them and their families. Please pray for them daily! In addition to that, don't forget to pray about their level of spiritual maturity. Happy birthday to all of the Sancti-Fly Mamas, Papas, plus the young people in this new month of October 2021.

 HEALTH AND STRENGTH

Father Yah, thank you for a praying spirit. Thank you for preserving the lives of these 2021 OCTOBER birthdays (love days). Only your spirit shall reign, rule, and dominate their day. Nothing else shall be able to stand. Thank you for being the perfect beginning and ending of their strength as they wake and sleep in all peace. Yah, as you blow your daily strength into these October birthdays' hands, legs, and joints, let them know it is your spirit that gives them the ability to lift, to eat, sit, and to clothe themselves. Thank you for loading these October birthday celebrants daily benefits. Thank you Yahweh for being the author and completion of their faith to believe, to drown and to bleed in all divine decrees promised towards their dreams. You make ways to heal every day openly and secretly as you breathe on the October birthdays (love days). Thank you Father for yielding an increase of healing their way as we use our energies to kill sickness to death and release healing over the lives of these October love days. Thank you Yah for letting these precious October birthdays know how rich and thick your refuge of strength is. So shall they bask in it; physically and mentally. I praise you, I lift you up and I exalt you for always taking care of these October birthdays. They shall be more courageous in this new season and not dismayed. Especially on their love days! If they tilt slightly to the left in weak, thank you for your hand turning them over in the position of strength. If they are faint, blow on them and replace it with your mercy, grace, and faith. These brave October love days shall remain firm and sweetly steadfast come what may. Let a thick portion of them know boldly that with you, "all things (strength and healing)"... and the other abundant portion of them know "are really possible." Thank you for letting these October birthdays (love days) know that healing and strength was meant for them! All of those souls who are standing in the way of these October breakthroughs shall be quickly removed! Thank you Yah for consuming these October love days with an extra dose of positive energy, the strongholds of faith, and a victorious mind to take over their lives this month; the rest of this year! 

PROTECTION

Thank you, Father Yahweh, for guarding their ways and keeping them each and everyday day as your focus of protection. Let their enemies be ashamed and brought to a mutual confusion who rejoice over their life adversities. The hand of the wicked shall not drive them away. They shall soar higher and win their race. Nothing shall stop or block them. No racism, no sexism and no classism. Let the black man's burden (racism) and the white man's shame (racism) die, be thou removed, STOP! In order for true liberty and justice for all to ring! Every negative form of energy, carjacking and witchcraft spirits against these October love days (birthdays) shall be entered into their own hearts. Their enemies bows shall be broken all over these October birthdays lives. A thousands shall fall by their sides and ten thousand at their right hands but it (viruses, sickness) shall NOT
come near these October birthdays (love days). Thank you Yah for your good energy and protection covenant, covering these October birthdays (love day). I pleasantly extend this prayer to all of their love ones! Thank you Father Yahweh for giving your angels charge over these October birthdays' lives in the light and most certainly when they travel in the darkness. Let traveling mercies be their shadow. Yah bless them! I touch and agree with the saints of your universe that your spirit continue to rule the raging of the sea in all of the October birthdays; when its waves rise, Yah, you still them. Thank you Yah for slaying the wicked minds before any and all of their foul ugly weapons try to form against this month love days (birthdays). Those nasty spirits shall stumble, fall, fail, and die. Individuals born in the 9 month of October shall escape all the evil bows and darts. Arise Yahweh, in all of their business, their streets, and in their homes, their visions. Let all of their enemies be scattered into your presence. I command all evil darts, and all foul spirits be removed and cast down; carefully, precisely destroyed with a double destruction who dare try to do harm over the lives of these October birthdays. Thank you Yah for pleading the causes of these love days and fighting against those who fight against them for no reason. You shall be their shield and buckler and stand up for these lovely October birthdays! Thank you father! We are not playing nice with negative, demonic spirits over here! You will flee! Incidentally, you have no spiritual power over them (us)! Just to be clear, ya don't.
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Spiritual Maturity

Let their mouths speak wisdom and their tongues talk of justice. We know your people are everywhere and needed in all things. Thank you for positioning these October birthdays to inherit the land you promised them. Let your counsel be the consumption of these October birthdays and their bloodlines for many folks smoking hope; generations to come. Let the gift of prayer be stuck on the tablets of their hearts as they often yearn to desire a praying spirit. Thank you for their children's children trusting in you. In your light they shall see the true light! Thank you Yahweh for being so merciful unto all of the October birthdays. Thank you Yah for personalizing their blessings specifically to their individual needs and causing your face to shine up on them right now! So shall they be full of grave determination to seek your truth. Let their hope be only in you father Yah. Bless your holy name Yahweh. You are too worthy Yah! Thank you Yah for your good- ness in the lives of these October love day, birthdays! Thank you father for your dominion over all of their concerns and your vibration having its perfect way in all of their lives. Thank you for giving these birthdays a mind to thirst for your glory and righteousness so they can continue to season the earth in their spiritual gifts; filled with the riches of sacrifice and a made-up mind. So shall the word of Yah abide like a consuming fire in each of their hearts to fight for their maturity, purpose, and destinies. May they all receive a heart of thanks and repentance, plus truth to be their shadow in the mornings and at of course at night. Yahweh, bless all the October birthdays with something extra special. Thank you Yah for building these men, women, and children up to bear much fruit. They shall all be smothered in abundance! Thank you father Yah for sweetly partitioning an over- flow of your understanding sweet knowledge, and wisdom, coupled with a heavy dose of discernment in the lives of these October love days. As you teach and lead them into their destiny, they shall flourish in your encouragement. They shall be surrounded by an oracle of your love as they slay anything that gets in the way of your plan for their lives. 

This phrase may appear to be overused but it is true. This is why I repeat it every month. "Life is a long shadow of short!" Love appears to be way too small a lot of the times. Therefore, I delegate my love to all of my family and friends who rock stronger than the wind by doing these birthday memes. I sincerely enjoy doing it. Memories are all you have when your loved ones are no longer with you. If you haven't noticed (where you been), we are experiencing more death and crime in this season. Tell those you love that you love them! What are you waiting for? It is time! This is why I get overly united in my Sancti-Fly love and birthday excitement, in light of being surrounded by so much love, therefore I give love back. If your love day (birthday) is in October, you already know I will be celebrating you too! I adore stalking my family and friends every year with good old fashioned birthday love day creations (3 purple links). I am thankful to show love to the love days (birthdays) of Octber while they are in the land of the living! Stop taking your loved ones for granted in 2021 and in the years to come if they are around! It won't be the same without them around and you know it, so now is the time to engage in love. You can certainly love them from afar if that is necessary. I repeat, now is the time to say I'm sorry and amend all those situations. You will feel so much better when you work it all out. Do not wait until too late!

​​​Prayer is a BEAUTIFUL birthday gift to give to YOUR loved ones who were born in the month of OCTOBER! To all the intercessors who are praying with me, thank you! Your prayers matter! Especially during these times we are living in.​

Black buying power is really contagious! Will it stop? We've been surrounded by a phenomenal cloud of witnesses with hidden figures and colors that has not slowed down. It has illustrated how powerful Black people are collectively. Black people created their very own Black Wall Street during the Era of 1920. Then the government sent planes in the air to destroy all of their prosperity. Even before that time Black people were inventing, they were building, and soaring high! It all was stolen and credited to Europeans. Economic 'blacknificance' in Oklahoma was raining excellence in Tulsa. It was spreading like a wildfire. All of their wealth went right back to their communities like it was supposed to. Black folks lost their spirit of self-reliance along the way. It appears to have made a steady rise in the 20th century. There are more Black-owned businesses in 2021 just like they had in Tulsa. Guess where most of their wealth came from? Their own people! The only big difference is we are not segregated anymore. Melanated folks did quite well during segregation despite not having the same equality as white folks had. They survived! They made a living and pulled themselves up by their own love and unity! I sometimes wonder how the lives of melanated folks would be if they hadn't integrated.

Children are not trained to be their own boss, now! They are trained to work for others unless they are given examples of how and why. When I was in school  all of my teachers looked exactly like me. They were all melanated. We were not taught about any financial literacy or how to build wealth. We were taught to graduate, get a good job or go to college. There is a lot wrong with the message. I surmise it was the curriculum they had to give! Today, depending on your zip code and race, some kids still have a low watered-down education. It's currently worse. It's a pandemic! Surprisingly, they do have schools that teach a more high-quality version of public education. Kids learn how to code, how to become entrepreneurs, and study financial literary before going to college. Some parents are proactive and teach these skills at home.

The wealth built during Tulsa Oklahoma raised children with an entrepreneur mindset. It was sealed and crafted in their bloodlines. Black men and women business owners didn't pander to the approval of the white dominant society like they do today. They didn't mind if white folks patronized their brands or products and services. They were not afraid to be who they were and market their niche to their people. I am just trying to encourage black people to be confident in all they do as business owners. I see a lot of black businesses and websites who will advertise more to white people by placing only European faces or models on their brand. To you I say, your people are worthy of your own advertising! I get it! They want that European support. I surmise if that is your market then go for it! All money is green, but white people don't do it and we (black folks) will still give them our money, patronizing their brand. Asians do not do it! You will not see a bunch of Asians, Arabs or any other cultures putting themselves last. They do not advertise to black people on their brand or on their websites. You'll see their own people! Why is it not acceptable for us when we do it? If you like a product you should buy it, right? Some of them don't even like your skin color but they're getting rich off of your dollars.
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You must respect my person if you want my dollar. I am not in favor of those type of brands. In the name of diversity, you might see a black face or model being advertised with their brands. What I am saying is, as black people we are one of the top consumers that buy more than anyone else. We spend more and save less! Don't be afraid to be who you are! Black people are just as worthy! Our dollars do matter! When Ebony/Jet Magazine launched their businesses, they knew exactly what and who their market was. It was the black community. We supported their brand and representation of us because they met a need. Black people will buy all kind or brand names, read European magazines who do not market to them, be totally unbiased, and be colorblind when they like and want to buy things. How many white people have read or purchased Black-owned brands, books, magazines or anything related to black prosperity? I'm not saying they don't. What I am saying is they do not support or consume like we do. We are the biggest consumers. When melanated people are aware of how crucial this is, things will shift in our favor.

​I totally understand why a lot of black people do not embrace and trust their niche. It is a process! Europeans historically have dominated economically. If they own and operate all of the banks, institutions and educational systems, they control the narrative of wealth. They still do! This has definitely played a part, so I totally get it! Just like them, we want their $ too! I get all of that. Do you get that if your market is towards everybody but focused on your own people, you don't need approval! It should be ok for you to have a business marketed to your own people just like they do! It should be ok to have a black person's face (its ok) on your website and them not feel uncomfortable. We are marketable! They know this! Black people are bombarded with everything that is European but will still patronize their business in a minute. Black business owners are worthy to be who they are and represent their brands unapologetically. Either you like it and buy it, or you don't. I get it! Do you get it?