This controversial piece is kind of like my Twitter Tweets of The Week. Once in a while I cruise around Twitter and talk about many random things trending but this time it will be with post from Instagram. Sometimes there is audio so please don't forget to click on the links in purple to listen in. I will always and forever dedicate this controversy towards the black liberation for melanated people and agendas of freedom in all of our nations! Remember that sometimes you will be offended by some of these Instagram posts. It might help you think about your views on things or change your perspective. The title does say this is about controversy. I hope you feel some kind of way. You're supposed to! This edition of controversy is mixed with a variety of history and politics in the mix.
This first phat juicy piece of controversy is definitely for the ladies! This man says
men need to really sit down and think about what comes with sexual relations
with a woman when you cross over from friendship to sexual partners. Well, he said "situation-ship" but it's the same thing. When you are not having sex with a woman and the male and female are just friends, there is no expectation. The man in this video expressed that there is no pressure on the man to call, spend money or time, or go on dates with a woman. He further articulates that when the woman and man do have sex, women expect the man to stop talking to all of his female friends, take them out, call them often and spend money on them. He even said that if the sex is good women think they are in love. His perspective and behavior might be realistic to people who are more carnal minded and less spiritual. Why would a woman think she is in love if she has sex with a man and it's the best sex ever to her? There are a multitude of reasons why. Sex is deeply rooted in spiritual connections. Whether you believe in a higher power or not, you will still reap or sow the effects of how you treat your body as it relates to sexual partners.
If you are a man who just wants to have sex with no strings attached, then you need to be honest and up front about your intentions. There are women out here in this big old world who feel the same as some men. They want to have sex with whomever they want and not be tied down in a relationship so make sure you are on the same page ladies. This man stated that even if you tell women, you don't want a relationship with them they don't listen. If that is the case, the women need to work on themselves. Why would you continue to engage in sex with men who do NOT want to be committed to you? Ask yourself that. There are men who do want to be in a relationship and who do want to be married. Maybe women should desire to be connected to those types of men. Most men truly understand that when they are in an exclusive relationship, certain things come with being in that relationship. Talking to your woman on the phone isn't major pressure. Spending time with your lady is something a man enjoys doing! Buying her a gift is also nice to do. Women do it as well to let their men know they are appreciated. No, it's not for you if you feel obligated to do something you really don't want to do, like the man in the video. Every relationship is different. Some women become friends with the couple. He doesn't always have to give up his female friends, but boundaries should be in place for the couple. The man in this video doesn't want a commitment. He just wants to have a good time screwing you and if you are ok with it, bring it on!
men need to really sit down and think about what comes with sexual relations
with a woman when you cross over from friendship to sexual partners. Well, he said "situation-ship" but it's the same thing. When you are not having sex with a woman and the male and female are just friends, there is no expectation. The man in this video expressed that there is no pressure on the man to call, spend money or time, or go on dates with a woman. He further articulates that when the woman and man do have sex, women expect the man to stop talking to all of his female friends, take them out, call them often and spend money on them. He even said that if the sex is good women think they are in love. His perspective and behavior might be realistic to people who are more carnal minded and less spiritual. Why would a woman think she is in love if she has sex with a man and it's the best sex ever to her? There are a multitude of reasons why. Sex is deeply rooted in spiritual connections. Whether you believe in a higher power or not, you will still reap or sow the effects of how you treat your body as it relates to sexual partners.
If you are a man who just wants to have sex with no strings attached, then you need to be honest and up front about your intentions. There are women out here in this big old world who feel the same as some men. They want to have sex with whomever they want and not be tied down in a relationship so make sure you are on the same page ladies. This man stated that even if you tell women, you don't want a relationship with them they don't listen. If that is the case, the women need to work on themselves. Why would you continue to engage in sex with men who do NOT want to be committed to you? Ask yourself that. There are men who do want to be in a relationship and who do want to be married. Maybe women should desire to be connected to those types of men. Most men truly understand that when they are in an exclusive relationship, certain things come with being in that relationship. Talking to your woman on the phone isn't major pressure. Spending time with your lady is something a man enjoys doing! Buying her a gift is also nice to do. Women do it as well to let their men know they are appreciated. No, it's not for you if you feel obligated to do something you really don't want to do, like the man in the video. Every relationship is different. Some women become friends with the couple. He doesn't always have to give up his female friends, but boundaries should be in place for the couple. The man in this video doesn't want a commitment. He just wants to have a good time screwing you and if you are ok with it, bring it on!
How many white women would trade places with a black person and want to be black instead of white? You have to check out this second post. Please don't get me started! One white woman tried to deflect by saying she dated a Hispanic man once and she thought about the consequences of having very dark skin hijos (children) but that wasn't what was asked of her. None of the women at the table wanted to trade places because they know that as white women, their pain matters in the medical field. If they were black, they would lose that privilege. In fact, they'd forfeit all of their privileges. They would not have favor, respect and protection with law enforcement. Their children would be criminalized for profit. Economics and housing would be an everyday battle. They would pay more for everything! They will never know!
"When your skin is used as a weapon you are never unarmed."
"When your skin is used as a weapon you are never unarmed."
Dear Brett Favre, John Davis, and Phil Bryant, all I want to say is that yall (in my Mississippi twang) don't really care about us! You sure as hell don't shed no tears for those black folks in Mississippi who don't have decent clean drinkable water, either. You 3 have been illegally stealing the funds allocated to help clean up the water crisis in Jackson, Mississippi. We are not surprised about your greedy wicked tactics to take funds away from the people who desperately need it and try to use those funds for a new volleyball stadium to benefit your daughter at the University of Southern Mississippi! I know there isn't a shameful bone in your bodies because it's in your nature to behave that way. I'll say it anyway! Shame on you, Brett, Phil and John! There shouldn't even be a water crisis. If this American government can easily give billions of dollars to Ukraine the folks in Mississippi should have their water system fixed Joe, Kamala, democrats and republicans. I feel the tunes of Jay-Z coming out! What the hell are you waiting for! The foreigners did not wait for aid!
White folks have definitely benefited tremendously from the residue of slavery and Mr. Van Lathan breaks down the facts. Leave your opinions by the opinion door. Welcome to the facts of life this American government has used to keep a certain group of people recycling in slavery. They terrorized our land and stole too much of our generational wealth. They murdered us economically by planting drugs in our communities. Mass incarceration is the new slavery! According to the evidence of their behavior, they are not coming to save us! That's our job!
Richard Riker was a wealthy lawyer, judge and politician like the bloodline of most white men during his era. Riker used his influence and biased thinking to kidnap black people and make money off of their pain. We have a lot of these examples by European folks who are judges, lawyers, and prosecutors doing the exact same thing today. How are individuals leaking in unfairness for melanated people able to even have those positions? You will never ever see any names or statutes being honored of ANYONE who had something to do with the Jewish Holocaust! Why is it ok for black people to relive their pain over and over again? They are worthy! So, tell me what has changed? Our American government still allowed the island that Richard Riker once lived on, to become a prison. They named the prison Rikers Island. The jail is one of the most inhumane places affecting the lives and majority of black people. All of these black organizations, so-called leaders, New York leaders, Democrats and Republicans really need their butts kicked to the curve for allowing this to breathe another day. Kalief Browder was psychologically messed up from being thrown in jail for a bookbag he never stole. He waited 3 years to get out of Rikers because he couldn't afford the bail. The island is a detention placement. They hold people there for years without any convictions. Why is this allowed? What about the 8th amendment of this patriotic constitution we love so much? Kalief killed himself when he got out! All of the mental abuse he endured at 16 years old, gave him no hope.
In light of those people who are upset about the new Little Mermaid Disney has coming out in 2023 because a black woman is playing the role, please spare us the dramatics. Europeans in the entertainment industry have been stealing all things authentic from all other groups since the inception of time. Ms. Elizabeth Taylor is a white woman who played the role of Cleopatra. Cleopatra was not a European woman. She was Egyptian. Check out the rest of the roles.
Just when you thought that politics would be out of our mix, you were so wrong. Politics will always be in our mix to mislead you, scare you, and yes lie to you with a coke and a smile.
Everyone has been on edge about the misinformation circulating in Illinois about the new laws in criminal justice coming in 2023. They were calling it the purge law. They got a lot of folks pumped up in their scare tactics. This lady is a public defender in New York. She breaks down the new law. It's not going to erase you from being thrown in jail. Did you guys really think wypipo would let that happen? Come on now! The no cash bail is about whether you can afford your freedom. PERIOD! I wish Kalief Browder and SO MANY OTHER black and brown families could have been subject to no cash bail!
Everyone has been on edge about the misinformation circulating in Illinois about the new laws in criminal justice coming in 2023. They were calling it the purge law. They got a lot of folks pumped up in their scare tactics. This lady is a public defender in New York. She breaks down the new law. It's not going to erase you from being thrown in jail. Did you guys really think wypipo would let that happen? Come on now! The no cash bail is about whether you can afford your freedom. PERIOD! I wish Kalief Browder and SO MANY OTHER black and brown families could have been subject to no cash bail!
