A man will not do that for you so wake up ladies. You should have your own lady friends that you hang out with. Yes, you should have those couples you hang out with but please maintain your own friends. A man is not going to stop hanging out with his friends to be under you all of the time. A lot of men are selfish. If they were not reminded about this or that, they would put themselves first. If you are a single man, perhaps just take notes. This is for men in relationships. You have to have balance. This lady is very comical to me, but she is serious. Listen to what she is saying, you might learn something. Ladies, you really should have your own life. I think it makes any relationship more wonderful when men and women can miss each other. If you had friends and hobbies before you met him, you definitely are encouraged to keep them. Do not drop your family and friends or the things you like doing for any man.
When you are part of the dominant society (Europeans) you don't have to really be too concerned about where you want to rent or buy or when you sell homes. Discrimination coupled with racist tactics will pass you by. It won't even look your way. Thankfully some black people have European friends or family members that will help them in these subjects by acting like they are selling or buying the property for them.