Well, I refuse to stay in my lane on this subject. I wish to divulgate and inspire you not to flirt, dance, or even enhance the chance to make a difference with YOUR KIDS. If you have more than one child, you are very welcomed to even the score of loving them all the same. If you have 3 kids and one is smarter than the other 2, please practice building up their self-confidence as well. If you label one as smart and intelligent, by all means call them all smart and intelligent. Positive repetition of verbal stimulation will help your entire family. Favoritism should be a foreign policy to you as a parent. If you are a believer and the spirit of the creator dwells in you, seek deliverance in that particular area. If you desire to please God in all of your ways, provoking your child to unknown dangers is not acceptable. (Ephesians 6:4)
Consider the effects of you treating one of your children different from the rest. Your kids are going to have things they will have to overcome in life. Please don’t add to the list by "making a difference" between them. If you buy one of your kids a present and it is not their birthday, you should buy all of your children a gift. Your children can and will grow up resenting you or have the spirit of rejection if you don't correct it. Please try your best to refrain from "making a difference" when your aim should be an unconditional gain with all of your children.