I just want to know what are the men doing to protect their women. It seems like every time you hear something on the news, someone is assaulting women. I know fellas, its a tuff job, so do it! I am not letting you off easy. I will pray for you. Protect the wives, moms, female cousins, aunts, and all of the women in your family.  

Have you heard about the 70,000 men in a group chat talking about and sharing with other men how they can sexually assault and rape the women in their own family? Yes, if you have been under your social media rugs hiding out, I don't blame you but you should be aware of this. On TikTok they have really stringent guidelines so that is why the title of this man's post says grape instead of rape. SA is also short for sexually abused. If you say the real words they will remove you from TikTok.

Ladies, please listen to this man. He said to treat all men that you meet like they are on that list. Moving forward, yes! This is not about fear or scare tactics. As wisdom needs some of your attention, take heed and listen. Do not go to their house until you've gotten to know them and still keep your eyes open. Do not go to their house on your first date. Be safe!

​​​​​​​This controversial piece is kind of like my Twitter Tweets of The Week. Once in a while I cruise around Twitter and talk about many random things trending but this time it will be with post from Instagram. Sometimes there is audio so please don't forget to click on the links in purple to listen in. I will always and forever dedicate this controversy towards the black liberation for melanated people and agendas of freedom in all of our nations! Remember that sometimes you will be offended by some of these Instagram posts. It might help you think about your views on things or change your perspective. The title does say this is about controversy. I hope you feel some kind of way. You're supposed to! This edition of controversy is all about bits and big pieces of life we are encouraged to pay attention to. Get ready to clap, roll your eyes and take notes.

Either take notes or feel free (you are semi-free) to disagree with Dr. Umar. I never thought about this but it totally makes real sense. This first post speaks on how black folks and white folks differ when it comes to power and money. White people lust for control. Just look around you. I do not have time to call them out. Examples are everywhere. Black people are so in love with having things and money. What do you think? If I was a millionaire no one would know.

Women, you can be in a loving committed relationship with your man and still not make him the center of your world according to this young woman. You must decenter (lol). In the name of sisterhood, you have to decenter that man, girl. To be honest, I have never heard of decentering a man before until I came across this TikTok post. She says decentering a man is certainly not about bashing men or hating them. I know that some women naturally do this. It doesn't have to be learned or talked about. We don't make our men the center of our world because we enjoy having our own individual lives. I agree! Especially when the woman is very outgoing, she is not about to make a man the center of her life. Naw, son!

A man will not do that for you so wake up ladies. You should have your own lady friends that you hang out with. Yes, you should have those couples you hang out with but please maintain your own friends. A man is not going to stop hanging out with his friends to be under you all of the time. A lot of men are selfish. If they were not reminded about this or that, they would put themselves first. If you are a single man, perhaps just take notes. This is for men in relationships. You have to have balance. This lady is very comical to me, but she is serious. Listen to what she is saying, you might learn something. Ladies, you really should have your own life. I think it makes any relationship more wonderful when men and women can miss each other. If you had friends and hobbies before you met him, you definitely are encouraged to keep them. Do not drop your family and friends or the things you like doing for any man. 

Men like this man in this particular story have been doing this forever. They act like it's some kind of brand-new thing. Listen to how they report on this story. We know the real deal. Black folks do not own the majority of this land's wealth and resources in America. It is easier for the white man to obtain. Yeah, black folks do own property and some of them have acquired great riches, but they could never get away with doing this to any group of people like this white man has done. Here is another example of how their system works for them. We all know the sentence would be much higher than 17 years if the landlord was a black man that stole money from the United States government. This guy just got lucky and caught this time because he messed with government funds. 

When you are part of the dominant society (Europeans) you don't have to really be too concerned about where you want to rent or buy or when you sell homes. Discrimination coupled with racist tactics will pass you by. It won't even look your way. Thankfully some black people have European friends or family members that will help them in these subjects by acting like they are selling or buying the property for them.

Black women are soak and richly wet in resilience. Although they still treat us as second class citizens and anticipate our help to always save them, our history is always being revealed about who we are and who they are. The true story about the Six Triple Eight is our right and privilege to let them know they cannot hijack our narratives. The truth is on our side. It belongs on our side.

You might want to pause or stop drinking those energy drinks. You are welcome to learn about juicing and make your own tasty drinks. You can add a smoothie to quench your thirst as well. Those artificial additions in food and beverages are out here winning. Stop letting them win. It can be a challenge but you can do it.

Support your local farmers and of course especially this black farmer. I think we all should put all of our money together and build our own towns and farms. I am very serious. There are families that have done it and are doing it. Yes, black families! Power to the people!✊🏾✊🏾

Yes, to this notice of motion. Unbothered will be my first middle and last signed signature in my own lane swerving in and out of happiness as focused gets all of my time. I do not mind. I will be showing out in a glowing light, growing as soft as the flowers or tulips that bloom. Flourishing...wait, did I hear my name. Who is that calling me! Flourishing...Ms. Flourishing, yes! 😊

This is really dope! Affirmations for the black man is something black women do openly and secretly because we understand what they go through in this world. If you know anything about black or melanated culture, you know the women in a black man's life are always fighting for him in the spiritual realm and affirming his worth. It is good to promote black men (who win) taking a lead in affirmations as well. Check out these affirmations. There are quite a few so don't forget to scroll by pushing the little arrow to view them all. We LUV YOU BLACK MAN!

Dear black women and black girls, um you rock in emerald green. You will have a great (everyone get out of my way) week. Here is your sneak peak.

You are filled!

Enjoy your weekend. Protect yourself from all of these crazy recalls on food and viruses. Bless your immune system by any means necessary.

​Dear Black People, (Hey)

Knowledge is power. I know you have been traditionally aware that the New Year holiday was always in the cold month of January. What if that wasn't the real date of the new year?

Have you ever heard about this?

This young lady is basically saying what the other woman spilled into your mind.

You will have a peaceful and restful weekend. The presence of Yahweh be upon you. So shall the angels of the lord chase your enemies away.

He says hope. I say COMMAND it! Decree it. Believe it. Your "mind cannot be colonized it is not land!" You have to know the power you have. Your enemies know it! Do you?

​​​What are the sisters saying to you on this week? They are saying pay attention to all things in this season, but the real focus is on you. Tune into what you want and how you will achieve it. Observing others, is quite alright. Go ahead and love on people. Want and feel whatever you deem necessary or unnecessary but don't dwell on anything. Keep your good energy vibrating high sweetie pie.

When you realize that you can keep on learning and striving to be better and stronger in your glow of growth, you can be true to yourself and no one else. The sisters are rooting for you.

Just keep being you.

The inception of the fashion mamas started with women, but I decided to switch it up by including the Sancti-Fly Papas. Why not? Morris Chestnut will be my first fashion papa man. I've showcased Beyonce, Ashanti, Fantasia, and many more Sancti-Fly Mamas.

Morris put that glass down and give me a hug. I promise not to let you go (lol). Whew, we love a man in a suit or uniform, especially when he is a dapper King-Papa like Morris Chestnut. Well-groomed just bombarded into the room and all of the female eyes were wondering about that black thunder prize. Gimme that black suit with the white stripes lined up in your power and your favor, Morris. Confidence is stacked on top. This is the suit that had all eyes on you, Morris.  We're about to order this suit for our men too! Boom, your date nights have just experienced a spiritual height of elevation. Where is your man taking you out tonight?

Just look at this fine-tuned gorgeous black man. Even his shadow understands the incomparable flair and swagger in this black breasted suit that they all try to emulate but they can't. He is relaxed and ready for you in this sleek black suit. Morris gimmie that dangerously winning fashion, in that black suit.

He always looks so fine. This time he is wearing his sexy sorry suit. He promised you a night out on the town for letting you down. He is going to make it up to you in your favorite suit that you picked out for him. Get ready for your night out with your handsome man. Do not wait up. He is definitely getting lucky tonight in his sorry make-up suit, especially for you. Make sure you pick the most expensive hotel (lol). Just look at him gurrrrl. He looks sorry and sexy. I'll take both.

I just heard the women in the soprano and the alto sections of the Fashion Papa Choir singing "What a beautiful black man." Even some of the men was fanning themselves and falling out (lol). No doubt, you are wearing yo' crown even when you sit down, brotha Morris. Emerald green and chocolate looks good on you. All of the ladies crave for their men to wear this kind of attire too! Morris, please gimmie that entire sexy fashion suit, with the white shirt that flirts out attractive. Your smile and fashion stance are truly on fire.

Where is he taking you in that suit? We know you're getting ready for your hot emerald love that will look dazzling on the two of you. You're going to be glowing in your matching gown/dress. You understand the assignment with your King-Papa man.

Please understand that the Chestnut black man can, rock his coolness bliss in any color or in the best style that fits him perfectly. Morris we will remember the time of your ageless "55 fine" when you made this fuchsia suit relentlessly dope. Thank you for giving other black men hope. Gimme that entire suit because it is the new signature of you. Morris stop teasing us with one hand out and the other hand halfway in your pocket with the watch peeking out in a smooth coolness. I see you! You are so cool.

The wait and anticipation are not just about vacationing. Anytime we hook up together to unwind, our personal time must now include the Morris Chestnut collection of satisfaction. In more colors of plenty fuchsia papa. 😊

Burdock Root

Burdock is coming into your town to cleanse your blood. Burdock told me that he could not wait to get inside of your body to purify it and work his magic. You can use Mr. Burdock in powered form, as a tea and you can take it in capsules as a pill. If you're into the juicing world, Burdock Root is great with pears.

Valarian Root

The secret to better sleep begins with the letter V. Valarian Root wants to be used by you and all the women in your family. If you need relief from menstrual discomfort, Valarian Root is coming to your rescue.

 Marshmallow Root

Marshmallow Root might not be cute, but this herb is ready to fight for you. I sort of think somebody (not saying no names) is purposely putting ingredients in our food so that it causes a great deal of inflammation. They know that we are very addicted to those foods. If you are going to put your dukes up and fight, why not add Marshmallow Root into your diet to instigate in your great victory.

Always pray and communicate with the creator of this universe (Yahweh). You know someone is in need of your light!

Read the entire bible verse of Psalm 91. Keep it close to the tablets of your big heart. Those who have no spiritual foundation or power will need it, especially in these dark times. Kudos to all of the men and women who pray this prayer over the members in their household, like their spouse and children. They do not stop there. They are what we call, prayer warriors. People know who they are. These men and women intercede in the best energy (prayer) by covering their streets, blocks, neighbors and communities. Your entire block is saturated in prayer due to their effective prayers. They also cover those men and women serving in their communities. Like our mail carriers, librarians, bus drivers, law enforcement, and firefighters to name a few. Energy is real. Light will always put out darkness. You know it! Prayers are always going up commanding those unseen helpers. We cannot be with our children all of the time so stuff some prayer in their brains. Put it in their faces and behind their backs.