Why do we feel giving up our bodies is the way to connect
Not realizing the long-term, irreparable, damaging effects
We replace the emotional for the physical, thinking we like the feeling
Never considering how we will recover from this sexual healing

Being with someone sexually provides temporary release of pent frustrations
Laying in the wake of the disconnect knowing there is nothing, sheer devastation
Giving up parts of you that are so personal and private

In the aftermath you are ashamed of what you did and now you want to hide it
But in the heat of the moment you felt giving your all would get you somewhere
Except after the shower, your scent is washed away and you look in their eyes and see nothing there

You lose just a little more of your soul. And what of your pride and dignity?
A long time of humiliation for a sexual relationship with no promise of longevity
When did sex become better than love? Dare I say never?

But the ways to finesse a body and mind are really quite clever
Shrouded and clouded with the feelings that a tender touch can bring
Lack of love inside has you out here bad  - pursuing and chasing
The high of love and what it will do for your heart

But love goes out the window the minute your legs part
Words whispered that touch deep inside that cover your eyes in a sexual veil
Body is in heaven and your mind, ha, oh well

You aren’t seeing clearly, the haze of intimacy obscures all rational thought
We realize that seldom do we follow the rules we ought
Take time to LOVE yourself before giving your loving to another
For it is better to have a temporary friend than a part time lover
 

What do you think about NovelTee's poem? Please care to overshare! :0)

Ye that fear the Lord, trust in the Lord: he is their help and their shield. Psalms 115:11
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Vociferation of a frustrated child pinched my attention while I was taking a walk in my neighborhood. I was 2 yards away from her disturbing cry thinking someone was beating her. As I got closer to view the situation I saw a little girl who was about 3 years old with her loving mom and big brother; the mom and the brother were trying to teach her how to ride her bicycle. The brother was only a few years older than the little girl. He was trying his best to encourage her. She was screaming and crying expressing how she couldn’t ride her bike. She said she just couldn’t do it! The bike had the cutest little pink training wheels attached to it. She had her mother shielding her on one side and her brother on the other side of her. Although they were helping her; trying to motivate her and protecting her on her left and right side, she was not trying to hear anything they were saying. She kept her focus on shouting “I can’t do it…I want my daddy” when they tried to tell her she could. We sometimes do this when we are perturbed with life. Instead of focusing on God’s promises and trusting in him and his time completely, we act just like that little girl. God is our help and our shield! Trust God in all the concerns you have petitioned for. You don’t have to be apprehensive about your life when God controls the beginning, middle and ending of your TIME. In time, I am sure when that little girl calms down and notice all the support she had from her brother and her mother she will believe; she will be able to ride that bike.

YOU WILL HAVE YOUR TIME

You will have your time to get that higher score on a test and bring up your grades. You will have your time to get promoted and enter new chapters in your life. You will have your time to see the desires of your heart come to pass. Look at those family and friends around you; they had their time! I remember when no one knew who Jaime Fox or Kevin Hart was. When God said it was their time they became renowned. LeBron James opened up his own school when it was time! According to Ecclesiastes Chapter 3 (King James Version) there is a divine time authored by God for you to bleed in receiving all the things you were purposed to get while you are in the land of the living; every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. (Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8

​It is time for you to use valuable resources to help your family and your kids. It is investment time! This means delving into mentoring programs and scholarships for your children to have the best advancement of opportunities. These organizations focus on aiding youth. Tap into some of these assets. 

100 Black Men
These black men are on a mission to help improve conditions in their communities. They have chapters in various states. Do you have any young men or boys who can benefit from 100 Black Men?

4-H
They are a positive youth development organization. They are doing their part to mentor our youth.

ACE Mentor Program of America
This organization is at the national level. They do have mentoring programs in Illinois. If you have friends, family or children who are interested in architecture, construction or engineering, please point them in this direction.

Action for Healthy Kids
Join the movement for healthy snacks and good eating tips for your kids. When your kids eat healthier meals it fuels their energy to learn better.

African American Board Leadership Institute 
You know you’re a boon; a blessing, an asset. The way you add all that saporific difference to all the young men and women who look up to you. Why not join a board and make your presence of inclusion known. This organization wants to ensure African American Leadership is represented well.

African American Male Institute 
The University of New York is responsible for this initiative. They desire to represent the underrepresented, feeding them higher education. 

A Home Within
They provide free therapy for foster children.  

Alpha, Phi Alpha 
They are an African American male fraternity that advocate for the welfare of black children and men. Seek them out and you shall find how they can help you out!

Amachi
This organization advocates for children whose parents are incarcerated and gives support to those kids. Amachi is located in various states. 

Big Brothers Big Sisters of America
All kids need a big brother or big sister as a positive influence in their lives. This organization helps in cultivating their success.

Boys and Girls Clubs of America
This organization will help water your children's potential and help them grow!

Brotherhood/Sisterhood Sol
If you want your young people rich in leadership development and educational achievement skills, please check out the Brotherhood/Sisterhood Sol. They have a lot to offer. This organization is locally based in New York but maybe you could start a chapter in your state. 

Children’s Health Fund
This is where public policy meets your supply and demands. Get involved in Children's Health Fund!

Concerned Black Men
We always need Concerned Black Men in black communities. This organization has a Chicago Chapter. They support and care for our youth. 

Daddy’s Promise
This organization was created by Ed Gordon. Daddy's Promise is an initiative to strengthen the bonds of fathers and daughters.  

Fulfillment Fund 
They empower young minds through education. They are based in Los Angeles.
 
Institute for Responsible Citizenship
This institute prepares African American men to be extraordinary men. They are responsible men who win in life!

Jackie Robinson Foundation
Higher education requires some financial funds. The Jackie Robinson Foundation has a scholarship program. 

Junior Achievement
Junior Achievement has verified their success targeting elementary school, middle school, and high school students to inspire and mentor leadership skills that help them compete in a global economy.

Jumpstart
Welcome to more informational tools and resources for you to use with your children. JumpStart is a nonprofit organization that helps prepare our intellectual babies from pre-school through college for financial literacy. Although they are based in Washington, DC I am sure you can use some of their resources or start a chapter in your state. Time to get a JumpStart on it!

Latin American Youth Center (LAYC) 
It is imperative to have bilingual programs. This organization supports our youth in job readiness, safe housing, academics; health and wellness.

MAD DADS
MAD DADS is the abbreviation for Men Against Destruction Defending Against Drugs and Social Disorder. They are the force behind the change. We need more MAD DADS in every state.

Management Leadership for Tomorrow
Change is inexorable. It can happen at any time; in every aspect. Management Leadership for Tomorrow is grooming young leaders for the changes that comes.

National Alliance of African American Athletes
This organization focuses on African American males to help prepare them for college life. They have teen summits, internships and financial literacy up their sleeves to enhance black excellence.

National Foundation for Teaching Entrepreneurs
Some kids are told to get a job and make a living. Some are told to go to college and get a good job. Others are told to create their own! NFTE encourages young people to be entrepreneurs. There is nothing wrong with that! 
 
National Safe Place
It is so comforting to know if our young people are in some type of trouble and have nowhere to go, there is a safe place for them. I think all states should have a safe place for our children. Sometimes we can't reach them but maybe someone else can.

National Urban League
The National Urban League is rooted and grounded in ensuring black folks have a seat at the American table of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. They have been advocating diversity in employment, job skills and mentoring for over 50 years. 
 
National Urban Tech Center
They use technology like digital storytelling and animation to help young people with their critical thinking and social emotional learning skills.

​Operation Hope
Operation Hope advocates financial literacy to our youth.
 
Police Athletic League
This is an important organization because it allows individuals to see and know that there are police officers who are helping to shape their communities in a positive way, despite what is often seen in the media. There are still good police officers present. 

Raising Him Alone
You no longer have to raise him alone. It is time for you to tap into all the resources waiting on you!

Steve Harvey Foundation
Steve and his lovely wife Marjorie have a mentoring program that helps boys become men. Each year families apply to the foundation in hopes of having their sons accepted into the Harvey mentoring program. 

Tavis Smiley Foundation
I didn't even know Tavis Smiley had his own foundation for young people to become leaders. There is no excuse for you if you need help with your young boys or girls. 

TERC
If you and your kids love math and science they certainly have to check out TERC. If your kids don't have any interest in math and science persuade them to check it out anyway. TERC is a great resource!

The Black Starr Project
Educating, organizing and mobilizing to engage the people and the families in the community = the ingredients of The Black Starr Project!

The Children’s Aid Society
Learn about the impact and the programs that help aid children.
 
The Links Incorporated
African American women of African ancestry serving and preserving their communities through community and charitable service. They have 284 chapters in 41 states!

The Morehouse Male Initiative
Truth, hope and visions for black males.

The National Mentoring Partnership
The apotheosis of mentoring = The National Mentoring Partnership!

The Panasonic Foundation
They are concerned about race and poverty. They want ALL kids to be blessed in success.

The Tom Joyner Foundation
The Tom Joyner Foundation has a foison of scholarships for you and your family to look into. 

UNCF
The United Negro College Fund helps black students with their college tuition and so much more! A mind is a terrible thing to waste. 

WorldofMoney.org
This organization is based in New York. They educate kids 7-17 on financial literacy. 

Young People’s Project
They train high school students. They have summer camps for the community and they promote math literacy. Check out the Young People's Project!

Please support these organizations and take advantage of the information! You know you can also give donations! :0)

I think I over emphasize how much I love and appreciate my family and friends often. Gratitude will always push you further towards amazing opportunities. The laws of the universe will greet you with all sorts of miracles when you are thankful. Being thankful for the little things and the bigger things should be an every day ritual, not just one day out of the year. We all have a bevy of things to be grateful for. Even if you are stuck in your feelings for some reason, you do too!

THANK GOD FOR LAUGHTER (HE-HE)
​I know your funny bones are bursting with laughter right about now. Looking at
Shaquille O’Neal laugh encourages us all to smile or giggle. Laughter truly is good for your heart. I enjoy being around happy people who can afford to laugh at themselves (I do) and who like having fun and laughing. I am so appreciative for the freedom to be able to laugh unconditionally.

​Don’t tell anyone but sometimes before I go to bed at night, the best memories will pop up in my head. Then the rush of giggles comes roaring through me. I am up all night laughing hysterically in the wee hours of the night in the moment. If you were my neighbor you'd probably think I was crazy! Laugh, I promise you will feel so much better. Think about something funny and let it out!

UNDERSTANDING AND MERCY (THANK YA LORD)

An adjective (understanding) and a noun (mercy) can turn a frown into a smile. You know as well as I do we have all sown some unhealthy seeds in life that required someone else to extend understanding and mercy to us or towards someone we love. This is why it is beneficial to reciprocate that exact same human quality to others. How would you feel if you knew a person was doing the best that they could with what they had and you witnessed another person belittling them? Arrogance is not the new advantage point. It is a disadvantage and a flaw in a person’s character if they think looking down on others or never giving them a break is irregular. I am not saying don’t deal with the situation. No, there are always consequences to one’s actions. It is imperative to incorporate some understanding mixed with mercy. If you know a woman is a single parent raising three boys and there is no father present that should be taken into consideration. Maybe she can't go out like you or do the things freely like you. You probably have a more supportive family and husband to help you. You would crave the same sympathy if it was you or someone in your family. I am grateful for folks who are applying understanding with a little mercy on top towards others.

PROACTIVE PEOPLE 
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Passive people do not make good leaders, in my opinion. You have to assert yourself to get things done. I am so thankful for the women and men who set fire to their determinations in order to unlock the freedoms that were held up in bondage. They believed they could! They imagined it! In light of those heroes and heroines I am enjoying the fruit of their labor. If you are a member of a committee, a politician or serving on a board, you are basically lifeless if you are not doing what you were purposed to do. What is the point of your service if you are not taking care of the people who put you in office? There is nothing wrong with declaring what is right and standing firm on that truth; using your voice plus actions to affirm and defend it (truth)! If you know your child is behind in math or reading it would behoove you to get him/her the help they need before their senior year. Also, parents if your kids are not on level academically, why would you allow them to play outside for hours when they could be practicing their math or reading a book to become more fluent in those subjects? We have to do our part in anything we desire to accomplish. 

NO SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS (RIGHTEOUSNESS)

 “Stop acting like you are so self-righteous all the time.” Have you ever heard someone say that? Self-righteousness is not a bad thing if it is used correctly; not in a haughty religious way. I understand people love to use the terminology out of term. It has a lot to do with morals. Righteousness is something our world can afford to be intimate with. We need it! We need it with our leaders! If you have been staying abreast to all the madness going on in our world (school shootings, mass killings, and wickedness pervading our land), you would certainly agree that we need some righteousness to soothe our souls and heal our land. We need righteousness to infect our schools, in our neighborhoods, in our places of employment, and in our minds. There is absolutely everything right about doing what is right!

GOOD POLICING :0)

I remember when I first moved out on my own. I went grocery shopping and I was pulling up to my house to go inside and take my groceries in. A police officer was in my court. He walked over to me and sweetly asked me if I needed any help. I said yes. I was so happy! His act of kindness made my day! Where was the news when that happened? They weren’t around. I do believe there are bad seeds in all professions. I am not a fan of bad policing. Not all cops are bad cops. I have friends and family members in law enforcement. The media enjoys hyping up those incidents that seem to incite certain communities in light of the police brutality cases shown. I concede it makes me angry watching it. It's the main reason why the popular phrase "I don't watch the news"  is so common.  After the officer helped me with my groceries I was laughing to myself saying “I know he didn’t think I was going to say no.”
 
This story warmed my heart because we don’t get to see these types of stories on the news like we should, regularly! When kids continue seeing men and women who look like them that have negative encounters and interactions with police officers on the nightly news (or in person), it does something to them mentally. It is not a healthy image for them. That is not good! I believe there are more cops like Officer Tony Carlson serving their communities. I am so appreciative of the good cops because they are out there. We need to see more of it! Thanks to all the police officers who are doing their jobs righteously!

If you have been reading SFM for the last 3 years you already know how marvelous my family and friends are. Yes, they rock stronger than the wind. I am thankful for them. I am connected to some extraordinary leaders and proactive creatures. We hold each other accountable and we love on each other fervently. Some folks don't have any family so don't take yours for granted. Be thankful for your family. Create some good memories because that is all you have when God says their time is up! I am so thankful for the foundation of family and prayer. I am also thankful for Ms. Lula (my granny). You know I had to mention Ms. Lula! :0) 
 

There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death. Proverbs 14:12
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Argy-bargy made its disharmony present and relevant when a man shouted, “Do you really believe a man can stay with one woman for the rest of his life and never step out on her.” Yes, replied the hoi polloi of 50 men sitting right next to their wives and partners. It was a wise move on their part as men, I surmise. Truth is the only safe ground you can stand on, is what I thought to myself when I was invited to a relationship forum a few years ago. There were a passel of over 100 people consisting of couples, marriages and a few singles who came together to discuss how to make our love rock harder; more awesome. The roundtable comprised of all races, entrepreneurs, white-collar and blue-collar workers. Christians and Muslims made up the majority of the environment for the discussion; also those who did not believe in God were assembled. Everyone in attendance was well respected for their beliefs.  

Perception and misunderstanding sometimes fight against each other. It reserves the right to clash in light of our thinking not being on the same levels. I was always raised to be mindful in recognizing personalities in this big world will not always see things the way I see things. Individuals will be confused or misconstrue things that you are insightful and conscious about if they are ignorant. The young man who didn’t think a man could be faithful to just one woman used the bible to justify his argument. He made a reference to a biblical story about David and Bathsheba. None of us were bible scholars but this brother professed he didn’t really read the bible. The women in the setting did not agree with him either. In the story of David and Bathsheba, Bathsheba was a married woman. David was a king. He saw Bathsheba and he thought she was beautiful so he slept with her. He wanted Bathsheba for himself so he killed her husband and married her. The consensus was how his interpretation of David and Bathsheba was justified in him believing no men can be faithful to just one woman for the rest of their life. Granted, the woman definitely was just as guilty but he was talking about the man. David’s adultery with Bathsheba was not placed in the bible for us to think it is okay to commit infidelity. It was purposely written to show us, to teach us so we could learn from his errors. God understands we are not perfect. David was disloyal to God. God was not pleased. He paid a price for his betrayal. 

There is a story in the bible about another man who slept with a married woman in Proverbs 7:18-23. The only difference in this story is the man did not know by him sleeping with a married woman, it would cost him his life. There are risks you really have to seek wisdom on. It may seem right but the end result will be the permanent ending of your life or freedom; or something you really care for like another person’s life. In some people's eyes domestic violence, embezzling corporate accounts and selling illegal narcotics is okay to them until they are exposed. It looks good at first but it can lead to prison for life. God deals with us all differently. Some of us don’t have the type of anointing David had on his life. This is why your relationship with God is vital. If you are a believer get closer to God. Learn God’s ways by studying him in his word. God will take your breath away with his amazing, premeditated grace. 

It is time for us to stop using and abusing certain words and phrases. We all do it! It’s wonderful how we come up with catchy words or phrases and how others overuse them to the bone; even when the meat falls off, we will still use it.

Truth be told, I really don’t like being the only black woman in my department. I am in charge of the Marketing and Sales Department for a major company that produces educational material for public and private schools globally. I am also facilitating all of our corporate meetings for my team, proudly. I’m going to keep it 100 with you. I’m like the cleanup woman. When others don’t do their work, guess who they call to get the job done right? Yes, me! I know every entity of the company. I’ve rocked that black girl magic in every department. They think I'm some kind of superwoman; like I am not a human being. When I need to catch a wellness break, I will tell them I can’t do it. I speak 3 different languages and I use my skills to help the company grow so I have a lot of leeway. When I bring my ideas to the table, they always try to change the narrative like it was them who came up with the ideas. I mean, who does that? I judiciously put them in their place each and every time. Then they are like, “Oh my bad” the credit goes to the only black woman in the room; yes, that’s right! The president of the firm is very fair with me. He has high ethics. I appreciate that. 

There is one black man on my team. He is such a coon! He suffocates his entire being and his culture just to please them. He acts like he has no voice or history of who he is. What is the point of preaching diversity if people aren't truly allowed to be who they are? Right! He even had the nerve to ask me out on a business date when he already knew I was off limits; especially to him! I was like Jesus take the wheel before I say something completely out of character. He is kind of handsome! He reminds me of an old flame I used to date. Yes, I remember this young man; he was so fine but beautiful on the inside too. He used to take me dancing or we’d go play a game of pool together. He taught me how to play pool. He would dance with me all night long on the dance floor, holding me in the most loving way. I digress but my co-worker really needs to learn how to be himself and love himself. He will be accepted for who he is; not who he thinks they want him to be.

They act in disbelief when I often tell them I am leaving their company to start my own. I am very vocal towards them about how much they don’t appreciate me. They laugh thinking it’s so funny. They claim how much they do appreciate me, but they don’t. I know I am a giant financial asset to their company; so, do they. There’s this one troll who always tries to be my boss. She isn’t even in my department. She is so nosy. She tries very hard to befriend me; acting like she likes me. She is very unsuccessful at getting information out of me or trying to upset me. I always slap her in the face with the “Girl bye” every time. My Sancti-Fly discernment is very strong. I don’t have time for foolishness. They’re going to miss me when I am gone. Watch!

COONS

You know black folks use and abuse this word. Raccoon is the mother of the word coon. Black people refer this terminology to other black people who they think are sellouts or embrace every other race but their own; economically, socially and politically. People who don’t like being black are called coons. If you are not dating a black man or woman but another race, you may be labeled as a coon. It is an insulting term used by black and whites. When it was used by whites it was part of Jim Crow. It meant lazy, inarticulate, buffoon and all other negative imagery about black people. We really overdo it with the word coon. I mean, if I don’t eat certain foods, I am a coon. If I like going sky diving, I am a coon. If I don’t agree with you on an issue and we both are black people, then I must be a coon. Truth be told, it is a bit ridiculous at time but serves its purpose when it needs to, I surmise.

GIRL BYE

I can’t even lie about how many times I’ve been smashed hard with the “girl bye” phrase from family and friends. They still rock harder than the wind (lol). If you want to dismiss someone with the quickness, use this term. Folks won’t know what hit them. If you really want to shut someone down or cut them off, this is the vocabulary to use on them. When someone uses this phrase on you, at that time, you really don’t matter. You can try and change the narrative all you want. You are very unimportant and what you say is worth little to them. Baby bye and Girl bye are twins. People tend to use them interchangeably.

I DIGRESS

Remember a few years ago when we just couldn’t get enough of using this word. I digress this and I digress that. Oh, my goodness! It was so unoriginal. Please stop! You are totally getting off of the subject. Jesus take the wheel!
 
KEEP IT 100

This phrase is annoyingly popular right now. Everybody wants to keep it real or “Keep it 100” in other words. Even coons like to keep it real. This simply means a person is going to tell you the gospel truth according to them. If they don’t like something they are going to speak their peace and their truth. If you take a tour around any social media sites you will definitely find the words “Keep It 100” on someone’s Twitter or Facebook accounts. They abuse and overuse this expression very much.
 
JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL

This phrase comes from a lot of gospel artist who have used it in their lyrics. I often think of that Kirk Franklin song (Wanna Be Happy) which also has the fine words in the stanzas. Some folks use it when they don’t know how to fix a hiccup or problem and they just say, "Jesus take the wheel” to lean on God’s power. I don't mean to digress, but I wonder if Jesus was around today, how many likes would he get on social media or how many wheels would he have. How many cars (lol). Others say it when you are getting on their last nerves, and they want to remain a godly person instead of using ungodly words towards you or cursing you out. They bite their tongues and say, “Jesus take the wheel” to keep the calmness flowing within their spirits.

MY BAD

You know this word is overly used when you hear seniors saying oh, my bad; like really. It is time to change up our words and phrases. Every person in every age or ethnic group uses this word. It is so played out (old). My bad simply means I made a mistake, and I am sorry. I wonder if trolls use this word.
 
THE NARRATIVE

This word is so in style right now. People totally abuse this term. It is very popular in the politics arena. “They are trying to change the narrative!” I know right, like who do they think they are! “We have to write our own narrative!” The narrative means you’re in control of your own story and you tell it. You really should be able to tell it better than anyone else can if it is concerning you. If you want to pay someone to tell your story the way you want it to be told, pay me, I’ll Sancti-Fly your truth. I will keep it 100! :0)

TROLL

Troll is another popular word folks use today, especially on the internet. It is basically negative people who hide behind their computer or some other form of mask trying to spew their venom of dissonance. Who does that? Don’t play into their energy. Ignore and dismiss them!

TRUTH BE TOLD 

I was watching the movie “The Women of Brewster Place” starring Oprah Winfrey. I heard Oprah say this phrase in the movie. My bad, it was another actress, not Oprah. The film was made in 1989 so the terminology is very old. A few years ago, people brought it back to life. They used and abused it! It simply means being real and honest.

WHO DOES THAT?

When it is unbelievable, mixed with I high dosage of ignorance, you will often hear the words “Who does that? I let my dog take a bath with me; um, who does that? I have kids but I don’t want them, so I let my cousin’s girlfriend niece raise them; um, who does that? Girl bye!
 
What other words do we use and abuse? Can you think of some?

Last Health Talk of 2018: Beating the Holiday Blues Saturday, December 22nd at 12:30pm. Location 4026 W. Van Buren. Free and light refreshments will be served.

He shall reward evil unto mine enemies: cut them off in thy truth. Psalm 54:5

The media will give off a lot of negative energy in light of so much turbulence on the morning and evening news. The other day I was reluctantly watching the news and saw a man carjack a person in broad daylight. The suspect crashed the car he was in and injured others as he ran away from the police. He had the nerve to carjack another car. Then the man got away. Although there is a huge populace of individuals who do not watch the news like they used to, the news is important to watch because there are things we need to be informed about. It also gives believers something to pray for or against. 

If you are going through perilous times and feel like no one understands you; supercilious folks are doing you wrong or you feel like stopping and quitting, do not do it! Our national anthem as believers is to hold on…so hold on! I promise God will fight for you. God will remember you! God is working it out right now for you…whatever it is. I am praying for you! I have others who are reading this right now at this very moment praying for you too (all the Sancti-Fly folks praying)! All I can say to you is pray for those people. Ask God to have mercy on them. God will be coming to see about you. God is concerned about the things you are facing and experiencing. God will also deal with those who are wickedly fighting against you. They will reap what they have sown towards you. The things you do will come back on you. Good or bad. No one can escape that. You do not have to say nothing or do anything. They will be rewarded and cut off! Watch as well as pray. Don't worry about it, or them. Keep calm with the equanimity of God's Psalms!

MARRIED WOMAN COMPLAINT... 
DEAR GOD,
My husband always touching me, like all the time; kissing me on the forehead, touch my butt and he even got the nerve to hug me a lot, even when I don't ask him God. He just like... does it involuntarily! He can’t keep his hands off of me and um...I LOVE IT…I LOVE IT...I LOVE IT...THANKS GOD! :)

GOD...
MY DAUGHTER, 
I always keep my word. I never forgot about your stored up prayers and desires
of your heart. Please continue to release your faith; living in expectancy; you ain't seen nothing yet! My LOVE looks good on the two of you! :)

These interesting mentions are worth your attention. Omarosa is doing it way big in an opportunist movement. The water in Flint is still unclean. Aretha is gone and the Supreme Court justices are not wise in their spending. The stories of discrimination continues on our menu.

THE APPRENTICE UNHINGED

We hold Omarosa’s truth to be self-evident of a woman who loved and praised President Trump with her hands raised high in (loyal lies) the air like she just didn’t care. Now all of a sudden Omarosa Manigault-Newmen has fallen out of love with Trump, in the most unpleasant kind of way when she got fired; okay euphemistically speaking, when she was let go from the White House! Omarosa is pissed off! She dismissed the 15,000 offering the Trump Administration tried to seduce her with to keep silent as reported by NBC. Omarosa surreptitiously recorded conversations while working as a top aid for Trump. She even wrote a book about it. Omarosa has alleged President Trump is a racist and he used the N word. Pursuant to the Vox, the plausibility of that statement is not surprising at all. America has a difficult time dealing with its racism. I do understand why it has received so much media attention. If the President of the United States is caught on tape saying it, there could be problems for him; then again, he has overtly exercised his freedom of speech since the inception of his presidency on Twitter. Is it just me? Does this administration have a high turnover dripping in disloyalty? Oh my goodness! It’s like your favorite or least favorite soap opera to watch.

WEST VIRGINIA IMPEACHMENTS
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​Allen Loughry, Margaret Workman, Robin Jean Davis and Elizabeth Walker have all been impeached for not having spending control; not keeping their hands out of the excessive spending jar as noted in the HuffPost. How many other public officials are spending millions of the taxpayer’s money just because they think they can? Warnings come before destruction. I surmise these 4 West Virginia Supreme Court justices forgot their ethical oaths. Everyone can’t handle large sums of money! What is the solution to keep this from happening? It’s so comical how people lust after trying to blame one party or the other. Don’t allow your emotions to keep you benighted! They all do it; both parties. Men and women! In this case 3 women and one man!

WHAT IS IN HER BELLY?

The store manager in Pineville, North Carolina who accused a black pregnant woman of stealing school supplies at Staples has been fired according to 11new. When I heard about this story I was thinking the same thing you probably were. Not another story like this, please stop! Yes, we are so tired of these stories! It’s crucial to expose this type of unacceptable behavior. The lady in question had to show her belly to the officer to prove she was not stealing. Sherell Bates is expecting twins. 

THE BIG PAY BACK

Dewyane Johnson worked as a school groundskeeper for years. In light of doing his job which required him to use Monsanto Roundup weedkiller, he says he contracted cancer (lymphoma). According to the Hill Johnson brought his case to a court in California that awarded him 289 million for his terminal illness. Wow! This is so sad. I’ve heard a lot about Monsanto products. Be careful out there with that Roundup!

CLEAN WATER VS DIRTY WATER 

Yes, the water in Flint is still not drinkable! We have a new space shuttle and we have Supreme Court justices spending millions of dollars. Why? Why is this not fixed? How did this happen? 

BLACK AND BOUGIE, NO ARROGANCE

The clerk in New Mexico called the cops on Jordan McDowell for being "arrogant and black" as reported by the New York Post. I did not make this up. Read it!

SHUT UP OR GET HANDCUFFED

As noted in Newsweek, 11 year old Fatayi Jomoh was dribbling his basketball and he was asked to stop doing it. He did not stop so the police officer at the Police Athletic League of Jacksonville put the little boy in handcuffs. His mother was not happy, of course. The officer in this situation displayed behavior that is the antithesis of what the Police Athletic League stands for.

SAYING LITTLE PRAYERS FOR YOU (ARETHA)
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Forever and ever, you'll stay in our hearts Aretha. And we will love you
forever and ever! We never will part from your love and the light you gave to us.
Oh, how we will miss you and love you! Together, forever, that's how it must be!
To live without you only means heartbreak for all of us. We are thankful for all the memories you've left behind for us to treasure. 

ARETHA FRANKLIN MARCH 25, 1942- AUGUST 16, 2018