​​​​​​​This controversial piece is kind of like my Twitter Tweets of The Week. Once in a while I cruise around Twitter and talk about many random things trending but this time it will be with post from Instagram. Sometimes there is audio so please don't forget to click on the links in purple to listen in. I will always and forever dedicate this controversy towards the black liberation for melanated people and agendas of freedom in all of our nations! Remember that sometimes you will be offended by some of these Instagram posts. It might help you think about your views on things or change your perspective. The title does say this is about controversy. I hope you feel some kind of way. You're supposed to! This edition of controversy is all about the love edition. I surmise love can be controversial.

In honor of Black History Month (365) being in February and this week being Valentine's Day (love week) this first post is for all those representing black love, self-love but especially for those who are in love.

He can't help himself because he doesn't want anyone else to love you. He also said you are at the top of his list because he is always thinking of you. Girl, you got a romantic man that borrowed his love words from Luther Vandross. It's OK! Use those lyrics men if you need help (lol).

Do men still think like this? How would you go about giving the woman of your  dreams the world, men?

Welcome to the king of the jungle. The lion king has been missing his lioness. I think they were meant to be. It's funny how some women in the comments said they were not folding (lol). I guess if the lady lioness is acting like that, it wasn't meant to be. Everything is not for everybody. Surely your person is absolutely out there for you men and women. If he wants you, he is coming to get you.

That is true love and mature communication seasoned with realism. I hope you  find that person that you can be yourself with. Some of you already have that. Couples have to remember they are on the same team. You're supposed to be vulnerable with each other and have each other's back. If any disagreements arise, wait until you get home or in the car to discuss it. Don't go off on him in the public. Girl, talk to him calmly (go off on him) in the car (lol).

There is nothing like a masculine man being a man. He knows just how to talk to you and handle you, at all times ladies. If you're already a couple that is great. If you're trying to get there you have to adjust your attitudes. You even have to do some adjustments after you are exclusive, married or partners.

This is the women's national kiss her-just-like-that anthem. It's your time and turn to apply the pressure fellas. Here is your freaking tutorial. It's an easy A+. Do this first and watch how happiness flows. You're leaving that party early, I know. How romantic and passionate is this. Unfortunately, some men still won't get it. Pay attention men. Women love this. Yes! Show your love off!

Oh my goodness gracious. Ladies send this to your boo thang (your man) or a person who you would like to be your man. What is he going to do with you. Girl you are too much. He is going to smile. He will love it! You're going to make his day brighter. Change it up a bit. Don't be so predictable add some spice to his life. He knows that you don't usually send these kind of texts or messages. Make sure to send this to him today or before Valentine's Day so that you can get extra stuff (lol).

You didn't know you were mixed? Now you know! You're going to have a great  amazing loving week.

I will continue sending these black codes so that black folks can use it. They say when you continue to hear stuff over and over again, it becomes part of you. Let these codes be part of you. Happy Black History Sunday (everyday). 

​Black Women, you are it! You are the magic wrapped up tight in everything. You take those wonder thunder mints and incessantly make life a hit! You make hits on the entrepreneur stage and your scent breathes change. You are so it! You make hits as mothers, guiding and raising young thirsty minds, to let them know they are worthy of all things at all times. Your full cup of inspiration with a dash of determination, gives birth to a wealth of sista-hood that helps to run nations. You are so it!  You were meant to be everywhere and you are. You earned it. No one can tell our stories like the black woman. You are it! Every time I turn around you are encouraging your sistas, lifting up your brothas, your community and anyone who will give attention to listen. You're a queen on a mission. Nothing or no one can stop you. Keep on queening!

I gladly welcome back all of the fashion mamas. I'm certainly not done with the papas because you already know black men win on my end. It's Black History Month so we have to be extra. Savannah did Mr. James get a look at his sweet sensation? Gurrrrl please do not stop rocking that sophisticated magic. Look at those pretty legs. You are everything in that short boss mama dress. Gimmie all those feathers on that lovely black (don't crack) dress. I'll take the shoes too! I think no one is waiting up for you (maybe Lebron) so have fun with the girls and keep striking a pose. You look great!

Every lady needs a dress like this. It is the perfect summer saucy dress for date night or girl's night. Either way, Mrs. Savannah has her hands on her hips to let you know that Black History is American History and melanated women always keep some glow and some shine with a dash of fierceness, up their spines. You are explosively giving off hypnotic energy. Gimmie that pretty attire with that goddess aura. 

Special moments just got upgraded when elegant hooked up with fabulous. This lady rocks hotness. She can be your night spice wife, only if your name ends in James. Gimmie that two-piece fashion pants suit with the jewelry leaking in the background telling us to get our own. Your pose tells the story of a black girl rocking beauty and grace in every shade,

Kaboom, guess who stopped all of that traffic when she walked in the room? I know who it was. It was Mrs. Savannah. The men and the women all paused when Savannah walked into the room. Savannah is simply beautiful. Gimme that entire fashionable look of notice.

Gina Humber is a black girl rocking In black thunder magic. Let me tell you why. Unlike some people in this world, Gina doesn't mind sharing information and keeping it all the way real with her audience and those in her circle. This black beauty has a lot of knowledge in the entrepreneur arena. Gina purchased land in another country and made it into an Airbnb. Yep, a black woman did that. How many black women do you know who has done that? Yes, let's copy (lol). Gina is encouraging others to do the same. What a great standard to follow during these times in Black History. You just got to have this Black Girl Magic. Gina is Black History that you and your family can imitate. 

Welcome to the Butterfly Buddha Bungalow, in Costa Rica. Please contact Gina Humber for inquiries. It's time for you to get away. ​Consult with Gina so she can aid you on how to proceed with generational wealth under your belt.

Oh my goodness. Another black girl rocking (non-stopping) in her purpose of the highest calling to provide and produce the narrative to showcase our stories. Sia of Savvy Media Group is the director of Left for Dead. This is a documentary you can support on Tubi. Sia hijacked the interest of missing melanated people back to the front of the bus. When black or brown people go missing they don't have the support or resources to help find their loved ones. This documentary is all of the difference you need. It hits with empowerment. Sia is the blueprint for you and all of the black girls rocking in their dreams to change the narrative. What a great model to follow during these uncertain times in Black History. You have to grab on to some of this Black Girl Magic. Sia Savvy is Black History that you and your family can reproduce.  

​I told you we are not being modest at all this year during, before, and after Black History Month. We are showing up and showing out! Make sure you check out black girls with all of that magic in the television and film industry. Do not sleep on a black girl's magic while she delivers a stellar performance on stage either. We have it all. Support black films, black theater, and all those dope directors and producers, especially in this month. Of course 365 days a year. We are not playing around. Expand your horizons.

On this day in Black History we are going to talk about the true savages. Did you know about this little unknown history fact? Back in the day, white folks were not only raping the male and female slaves, they were eating those slaves. Yes! You heard me. The Delectable Negro has all the details.

As disturbing as this information is, you and your family really need to be aware  of this. The Delectable Negro is part of history that I just found out about. I'm not that surprised because during that time they hung and lynched black folks then they made souvenirs out of their flesh. They ate them too! This book was written by a black author who has left his mark in this world. Vincent Woodard passed away in 2008. There are many different stories written on the subject by other authors. Please try to purchase this book from the narrative given by Woodard.

You KNOW we are showing out this month and for the rest of the years. Nothing will be erased and we never gave any energy to those who did not like the truth about us! Tell it and share it (with my hands on my hips and my fist raised high).

​​​​​What are the sisters saying to you on today? They are saying to you my dear, that you are allowed to want what you want and need what you need. Don't you dare have any qualms about that. You can be very independent and still desire a partner or to be married. It is ok if you are lonely. You are worthy and so special in the eyes of the creator. There is no need for you to be bothered by any human beings that are outside of the comfort zone of your worth. Remember that there is no one like you.

You are hidden and protected by Yahweh for deeper, richer reasons. Great stuff will happen for you. You are valuable and you will have the man God created for you, covering you gurrrrl. Get ready! We are so happy for you. When your scent rubs up against his scent, he will recognize who was sent. 

​Dear Black People, (Hey).

If you haven't been paying attention to this new administration and all the list of things they are promising to do and have done that is your fault. They are doing exactly what you are witnessing. This melanated queen is speaking to us about our rights. If you have black men or sons in your life and you are floating around this country thinking its only shades of grey, wake up. Listen!

I sometimes wonder if all of these black churches and organizations are doing what this woman is doing. If not, why not? Why aren't they preparing people in their community for the times we are living in? This information should be fluent. There are a lot of melanated young and old people who do not know what to do if they are stopped by the police. Their lack of knowledge will get them killed. It is not the time to fight with them when they stop you. Try to remain peaceful. Fight them in court. Black folks go to church faithfully. The church really needs to step up. This information should be promoted and spoken of like tithes and offerings. If you are that church or black organization doing this, I am not talking to you but don't be discreet about it. Be loud!

Yes, yep, yeah! Women do a lot, but they require consistency and for no one to take them for granted. You don't own any rights to getting comfortable now that you have your queen. Put in the work. You can relax when you sleep at night.

Dear Black Women,

May you be blessed with the best to get relief from having to be so strong all of the time. May all of the lazy selfish men straighten up their backs for you! Stop making all of those excuses, and be the man. Can she live in her soft girl aura? Can you drive and let her be the passenger? That long stick or little bitty stick with the two circles attached to the lower end of your body does not equal your manhood.

Dear Black Women,

You should have a safe space to express your feelings. You deserve to always be loved better and better. You deserve to be properly loved and nurtured. Your man or husband really needs to take notes and absorb the message.

​Dear Black People, (Hey)

Can some of the females out there say OUCH! Try to listen and learn before you get into your emotions. Some women can be worse than men when they have a higher income. The ego is real for women too! What is swimming around in that character of yours? Perhaps you cannot attract the man you are meant to have because you have work to do on your inner self. Sure, you could probably have a lot of men, but the right package for you is not available yet. 

Lets flip the script. Regardless if this is fake (a skit) or real. This woman is not concerned about the man that has been in her corner helping her out. As soon as the man of the house has some financial difficulties she refuses to help him out. Men take pride in being able to help and provide for their families and for the people they love. Ladies and gentleman, If a man is asking his lady or a female friend for financial help, it is a big deal. Most men keep that inside. Most men do not ask women for money. Not all, I said most. Should they open up and discuss it with women if the men are husbands?  If the woman has your back, she will. If she is a woman that's not into giving men money, it is not happening. Is this not acceptable? I know to some of the women in this world it might be okay, but this seems harsh. This scenario is very realistic. Some women in this world will leave you with the quickness if their lifestyle changes.

I wonder if the young lady was married to the man, would she still not have his back? He did say he helped fund the business that she has. The young lady in the video mentioned that she was not his girl, just his baby mama! She repeated it over and over again! Would you help him out, or leave him? Some women feel a man should never ask a woman for any money. If he has financial problems it is in your best interest as a woman to let him figure it out by himself. He should not be asking a female for money. This does not apply to those arrangements a woman has with her man. Those caliber of women will give their men money, and take great care of them while they work daily and the man stays in their home. They say the women are masculine and the men are more feminine.