I am well aware that some people who are in interracial relationships and have children with men and women of different races, especially black children, could very well still be racist. My elders educated me on that at an early age. I am also very cognizant, folks who look like you are not going to always agree with the social issues or agendas you care about, even when it affects them. We can’t always assume. According to this King Papa, known as “ya’ll don’t read,” If you are a supporter of Trump you don’t care about him. I have friends, not associates who are republicans. They do not agree with President Trump’s ideologies, nor his policies. Can we really be friends with a person if they are a supporter of a man who stands for things you disagree with? He even states, “Ain’t no 45 supporter who is your friend unless you are also a white supremacist sexist capitalist homophobic transphobe” and you can find this statement on Instagram as well. Press the little arrows!

When I was a little Sancti-Fly Mama, my mom always checked our bags to make sure nothing crazy like this incident happened. You have to be extra cautions during Halloween. This controversy reports drugs found in a child's candy. Lord Have Mercy!

​HAPPY HALLOWEEN! A lot of black folks didn't like this. I think it is very distasteful but I am not surprised by this, nor am I offended by this. Why would some parents allow their children to publicly dress up like slaves is beyond my comprehension. Plus, peep the blackface! What do you think about this? I just can't believe all the things people say AND DO! This definitely equals a fresh piece of controversy. 

These children are going to reap what they have sown. I stand in agreement with folks who do talk to their kids about bullying. It is wrong no matter who does it! No matter who the person is! What if this was your son or family? Why is this even allowed! Who is video tapping and not stopping it? This is not funny! Kids are ending their lives over this! God bless this young boy! Teach your kids, YES your kids, not to behave in this ugly way.  

Check out DL Hugley's little note from his GED section as he speaks on Kanye West making white people feel good about black people being inferior. Listen up!

This young Sancti-Fly Papa is also changing the narrative by becoming a future  flight pilot. Read his story! He didn't quit! He didn't give up! God bless him! Kudos to him and thanks to Fly For The Culture for bring this darkness to the light. He also has the unity of his family holding him up! Welcome to AA Cadet Academy young brother! Continue to represent excellence!

Black excellence is in the building! These black men are changing the narrative in the film production industry. I like saving the best for last. Check out these fly beautiful King Papas!

Antiquate your unpleasant moods and bad attitudes when you enter the presence of God. Leave all the negative energy at the door and focus on your worship experience. If you practice your concentration on praising and revering God, your mind will be renewed. Yes, there are things that transpire in some churches or congregations that we corporately have to delete as a body of believers. Notice, I said we. Ouch! Anti-Saints are in every church. Saints are also represented very well (thank God) in God’s sanctuary. The aspiration is for Anti-Saints to be conformed to the characteristics of Saints. Saints are men and women who are believers. No, they are not perfect but they are encouraged to do their best to get as close to it as possible. Anti-Saints have to season their ways with the covenant of God’s love in order to change. You thought you could do it all by yourself...noop! Ask God for help!

Communicative Speech to Each
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Saints will speak to anyone and everyone. No matter how a person looks or smells, Saints will welcome you with love. Anti-Saints will speak to people sometimes or only to those folks who they feel comfortable with. Anti-Saints will walk straight pass you when you speak to them and will not open up their mouths to speak back. When the church has visitors, all the Saints will greet them. Anti-Saints will sit in their seats like a statue. If you are an Anti-Saint and want to be free to fellowship with others, start by walking up to people you never speak to in your church on purpose and say hi or good morning. Compliment other people in your church to start a conversation. If there is a new person visiting your church, get in the habit of greeting them; which is positive promotion for your church. If you don’t want to hug them, smile and shake their hand. This will create an amative aroma of dulcinea from you to the visitor. Don’t roll your eyes and look at people like they are crazy. We are all trying to work out our own salvation. If you are reading this right now, it’s time for you to welcome your new ways! Exercise your mind with biblical scriptures that endorse good character like Luke 6:31-35. God commands us to show love towards each other. Lord help us! Speaking and greeting members of your church or visitors is showing love.

Lessons of Discretion

“He who conceals a transgression seeks love, But he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends" (Proverbs 17:9). I have said this numerous times and I will not back down from saying it. It is unfortunate that in my opinion most people cannot keep intimate matters secret. They could not keep a secret to save their own lives. There are some Saints who can. If I a young woman in church had an abortion and went to one of the mothers of the church to talk to her about it, her business should not be all over the church. If she went to the pastor of her church to seek counsel from him/her on private issues she had encountered, her personal business should never circulate in the church. Those are unpleasing traits of Anti-Saints! Saints pray for you; not gossiping and spreading hearsay about you. God have already told us in his word to keep sound wisdom and discretion. Learn to pray for people and shut down those Anti-Saints when they come your way with foolishness. If you are an Anti-Saint and you struggle with discretion, start praying daily for deliverance. Ask the lord to help you “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer (Psalm 19:14).”

Ushering, Cussing & Fussing

Saints are not offended when the usher of a church instructs them on where to sit. Sometimes if the church is full they have to seat you. Order must be enforced in any place of worship. You are not allowed to break the rules. This might come as a surprise to some of you but the ushers are just doing their jobs. If you are asked to be seated somewhere and for some reason you prefer to be seated in another pew, let them know in a graceful manner. I have done that before. It works! “Do you mind if I can please sit right here” is all you have to say. Anti-Saints will divulgate how ignorant they are with their stentorian cussing and fussing over a seat. If you want to be free from all that cussing and fussing pray for obedience. Remember, when you are obedient to the usher (men/women) of your congregation, you are obeying the leadership of that church and God. Um, and God!

In The Groove of Following Rules

We have to get in the groove of following the rules of our churches. If cell phones are not allowed for adults, why would we allow our children to play on their phones and iPads during worship service? We have to stop it! Ouch! Saints try their best to follow the rules. They don’t allow their kids to run up and down the aisle of the facility. They monitor their children. They cancel out all the food disallowed in the sanctuary and they participate in serving and volunteering when they are needed. Anti-Saints let their children do whatever they want. They don’t know where their children are and what they are doing in the church because they never have them seated by them. They get offended when you ask them to control their children when their children are not following the rules; running and playing while the pastor is delivering the word, eating candy and fast food, or taking a million bathroom breaks. If you are an Anti-Saint I stand in agreement with you to do better. Pray for obedience to reverence God’s house.

As Saints and reformed Saints, let us all "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you (Ephesians 4:32)."

What Appeals to you may not Appeal to others! Small minds, big minds, and great minds do not think alike. Music is just ripe to bring us into the Obama's summer delights. It’s completely alright. First, let’s focus on our Christian sisters and brothers who have a problem with the difference in others. What do you think Jesus would do? It’s kind of hard to believe how 5 capital letters just made history in the state of Illinois. An ex-convict getting a salary from the rich is sweet and authentic. Some may get offended when folks talk about white privilege. Pay close attention to these crucially loud mentions.

IN BLACK IN WHITE IN GAY

Mississippians are eliding truth with that southern white Christianity pride. This kind of White Supremacy…oops I meant to say Christianity seems familiar. There is a place in Mississippi called Boones Camp Event Hall. They have lots of wedding receptions and weddings there. It is not for those folks who are bi-racial or those who are gay. They boldly state they do not service those kinds of human beings. It is against their religion. What part of Christ do they represent because that is the antithesis of the Christianity I've known. Now, I know Jesus did not tell them that. I just know it! Just like I am extremely skeptical about the verse in the bible that states “slaves obey your masters.” I bet someone’s great-great grandfather from Mississippi, who owned a plantation surreptitiously wrote that part in the good book. This is the fragrance of pure discrimination mixed with a loud scent of racism. Whatever God or higher power you believe in or pray to, I can tell you that hate is not part of the creator's spirit.

LGBQT HISTORY 

​Can you sign this bill? Those children who reside in the state of Illinois will be required to learn the history and positive contributions made by those in the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender community. This bill will take effect in the year of 2020. This bill was legislated and birthed out of two years from Heather Steans. She is a state representative in the Democratic Party. She has a child that is transgender. This bill hopes to help those individual youngsters who are part of the LGBT.

THE GAME OF RESTRAIN

It’s like a jungle sometimes it makes me wonder how certain officers can use restraint on some but not on others. I wonder why? This story baffles me. Matthew Thomas Bernard was accused of killing 3 people in his family and the police ran from him. This brother was running around naked chasing an armed officer. America, we have to start having these uncomfortable conversations concerning race relations in our communities. Black people are not throwing any race cards. We are dealing with the deck of cards we have in our hands, daily. If officers are charged with serving and protecting all the folks who are tax payers, can all folks and all people get some restraint too. Of course I am not talking about all police officers. In the African American society, we do not see restraint enough. The preponderance of evidence shows some officers are quick to shoot and kill black lives that do matter. 

SECOND CHANCES IN SALARY ADVANCES

The bottom line is Kim Kardashian just blew our minds with her magnanimous kindness towards Alice Marie Johnson. You remember the story about Alice Marie, right? Okay, she is the woman that was in jail for life (with no parole), in light of having a non-violent drug charge. This was Alice Marie's first offense. Kim successfully petitioned for her liberation and President Trump pardoned Ms. Johnson. This is why folks are fighting for criminal justice reform; to be fair and equitable. There was no stopping Kim Kardashian West after Johnson was released from prison. As noted in ET, Kim kept in touch and gave Alice Marie Johnson a job modeling for her sculpting bodysuits. 

YES, PLANTATIONS = SLAVERY 

Deep conditions are coming hard-core for you on this particular mention. Bare with me and imagine this! You and your European family have the desire to go plantation touring. Before you go on your expedition, you are cautioned that the plantation is about enslaved people. Let’s say it together, “enslaved” people. You do know most folks who owned plantations had slaves working on it, right? They did free labor, okay. As The Root points out, there were some white folks totally offended that they went to visit a plantation in Louisiana and were actually told about how white people treated the slaves on the plantation. These white folks were so disillusioned about what they heard. They did not want to hear that kind of truth. Plantations were structures of white supremacy! It was not a pleasurable experience. The more you know!

INSPIRATIONAL WARFARE

Biles is crowned with a foudroyant twist of saporific amazement. Simone Biles is  engulfed in that “gone girl magic” vibe. Simone is the true essence of hard work, dedication, and pride. When you look in the dictionary for the word gymnastics, Simone Biles name is penetrated in the middle of it, affirming her as super-duper fantastic. Biles thinks, drinks and breathes excellence in her double triple floor routines! She is very inventive. She is the difference! Simone Biles came by to notify us all how Sancti-Fly and live she is. There will only be one Similes Biles. Gone girl! Gone girl!

Dee Magic‏ 
Shannon Sharpe Asks If Botham Jean Murdered Amber Guyger Would He Have Only Received 10 Years

In this second tweet by Dee Magic, a man by the name of Shannon Sharpe asked if the roles were reversed, what would happen? Would Jean get 10 years for killing Amber Guyger? A lot of people on Twitter and others seem to disagree with no. Shannon articulates that “Black people are always expected to be compassionate, but rarely receive compassion.” The proof of that is not cryptic. 

Rafael Olmeda‏
This article wins the "Totally Missed the Point" award. I'll say it AGAIN: if a judge handed an inmate a personal copy of her Qur'an and encouraged the defendant to have a...
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Rafael also re-states the issue about Judge Kemp giving Amber Guyger a bible and a hug. He does not agree with the article in the New York Times. Judges are supposed to be impartial. It would be nice to see all judges model this kind of compassion. 

NYT National News‏
"We don’t get handshakes, we don’t get hugs, we don’t get Bibles," said Christopher Scott, a black man who was wrongfully convicted in a capital murder case. "They just say ‘We’re sorry for what happened to you and you are a free man to go.’”

​I am sure a lot of black men and boys can relate to what Christopher Scott has said. Some of you are bothered by Kaepernick taking a knee. This is why!

Betty Joyce is probably a Christian woman who believes in the power of forgiveness and President Trump. I wonder from visiting her twitter account if she would sing these same tunes if the roles were reversed. But everyone is not a Christian and some do not believe in its doctrine. There are those who agree with what the judge did like Betty and there are some who are done with singing kumbaya.

Karen Hunter‏
How about this: All you people outraged by the amount of compassion shown Amber Guyger, demand that level of love from one another. I don't want to hear another "bitch this," "nigga that," nor see us support nare nother reality show where this destructive behavior is exhibited.

I like this perspective. It is quite different. Well, how about it black people! Can we do that? Karen Hunter has a valid point.

Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib‏ 
READ: I was elected to serve #13thDistrictStrong, and I cannot in good conscience sit by while inaccurate facial recognition technology is deployed in ways that run the risk of false arrests and over-policing.
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Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib is calling out the police department in Detroit Michigan for their face recognition policy which she states is flawed and broken. Tlaib wants blacks to be represented in the process of that technology. Some folks do not like what she is trying to do.

​Carol Spencer‏
The Beautiful Talented actress pioneer Diane Carroll has died

Diahann Carroll made waves in her grace to represent black women as an actress and singer. I remember when she used to play on Dynasty. I watched it mainly to see her on there. It was a major role for her. Ms. Carroll has definitely left her mark in this world. She died of cancer. She will be missed. 

Gloria Garrett
On Thursday, October 4th 2019 Barak and Michelle celebrated 27 years of black love that rocks! They always represent love in the best way. Gloria Garrett and other folks on twitter wasted no time in wishing them a Happy Anniversary. 

​Barstool Sports‏
Kansas bringing out Snoop Dogg and stripper poles for their midnight madness. Going undefeated this season. (Via @mswain97)

Interestingly, folks are at an uproar over Snoop Dogg performing at a college in Kansas. Well, at first they were not but now they are. He (Snoop) of all people had strippers on board as he performed. Not Snoop, right? 

​Jemele Hill‏
I’m here for Snoop blowing up the spot in Kansas and giving them all the blackness they didn’t ask for. But it’s a perfect snapshot of the NCAA hypocrisy, and also how schools use eye candy and extravagance to hypnotize young athletes.

Jemele Hill is in support of Snoop Dogg and she makes no apologies for her support of him or her statement.

Every day that you wake up is your special day (your birthday) of grace and mercy. Isn't it humbling to get a chance to start over ladies and gentlemen? Think about it! You have a brand new interruption of daylight to get it right each and every day. You have a chance to let go of yesterday's hurt, defensiveness and negative energy; I mean, whatever it is, it is over! You have the opportunity of a lifetime because you are alive! There is nothing like being able to hug your family members or smell fresh air in the morning. You are the antithesis of gaucherie. The creator fearfully and wonderfully made your DNA distinctively. There may be some individuals who resemble you in appearance or in your family but you are exceptionally unique on purpose. Embrace those empyreal qualities you have and offer them to the world. Anything dead needs to be buried. If you are reading this you are blessed in abundance. So shall you NOT live a buried lifestyle! You have way too much exquisiteness bottled up inside of you...woman...man! Today is your birthday! Right about now is your best day!

You are entitled to feel all kind of emotions: admiration, rage, scared or hopeful. It certainly is your prerogative. If you have a mood that keeps you away from celebrating your special days, try your best not to hang out with that mood too long. Kick that mood to the curve. Absorb the enjoyment of your special senses. Everyday is your special day! ​

This new venture I stumbled on surrounds the ingredients of Instagram. I am always striving to do different things on SFM. This controversy piece is kind of like my Twitter Tweets of The Week. I cruise around Twitter and talk about many
random things trending but this time it will be with post from Instagram. Enjoy!

Abusage language will not be tolerated. No one is going anywhere. It's not going to happen. Do only certain wypipo (white people) say this? Have you ever been told to go back to Africa? What if you are not from Africa? What if you were born in America? What do you think about this? This post originated from bolastname Instagram account. This land is supposed to be a melting pot where immigrants of all folks have migrated or were stolen. If we can’t talk constructively about this race problem we’ve always had in America, try your best not to say anything to me. We are not going anywhere. You do understand why "STOLEN GOODS" is articulated in caps, right? Those folks who have a darker skin pigment than you were brought here against their will. They lost their true identity. They lost their religion and their culture. They've been fighting for their freedom for generations and will continue to.

Representation and inclusion is EVERYTHING! I do understand when you are totally used to everything being about you, it never crosses your mind that other people exist in the world who would like to be illustrated on your brand, which they also support. Living.while.black is responsible for this good positive post. Black folks have patronized this brand for years so why wouldn't Huggies finally advertise a black child and man on their cover? It's about time. What took you guys so long Huggies? This is good news!

As DL Hughley always stresses, we have to change the narrative. Yes, there are black men who win, or Sancti-Fly Papas who take time out with their kids and comb their hair. It's nice to see and even better to promote. I promote and write about Sancti-Fly Papas all of the time. This is so adorable! Her hair is beautiful!

If you are so tired of it, we are tired of living it and experiencing it. What are you doing to help kill it so it can die? If you are so tired of hearing about black folks and people of color complain, maybe you can use your privilege (black or white) to help heal it and stop it from growing. It continues to spread from generation to to generation. I found this on DL Hughley's Instagram.

The Real DL Hughley really has a lot of post that keep me coming back. This is a picture of a man proposing to the woman he loves. She says no. At least she was brave enough to be honest. What are your thoughts on this? Would you have said yes not to embarrass him or flat out said no? 

You know he is telling the gospel truth! You cannot deny this. If you do, it is still going to be true. This is being recorded in the history books and I am thankful I am around to witness the truth because some folks love to change the narrative. There is nothing great about making America drown and bleed in hate. 

I've saved the very best for last. This is a repost from WorldStar that DL Hughley posted on his page from them. Make sure you press the play button so you can get a heavy dose of motivation for your professional and personal life. The young man gave me chills. It’s a blessing to have Sancti-Fly support like you guys out here pushing folks to their greatness. This is very inspirational. It encourages you to continue to do the amazing great things that you are doing. It gives you hope for all the things that are possible so don't give up. You owe it to yourself to keep on trying until something breaks in your favor. It will happen for you! 

If you were described as a mixture of things or elements what would it be? If you were a song what would be that Sancti-Fly title? If your life was a book what would that consist of? 

The Sancti-Fly Mama is a mixture of may things: sunshine, fire, and water. I am also a SFM mixture of “Stella Rosa” LOVE and war. If I was a song, the titles would be more than one: “Break You Off” by the Roots, "Overjoyed" by Stevie Wonder and "Black Butterfly" by Denise Williams. I would be remiss if I did not include "Intercession" by Kim McFarland. Kim is my favorite gospel artist. I have a plethora of titles; just giving you a platform for examples. If my life was a book it would consist of Poetry Prayer, lots of healthy food recipes, activism, humanity, spiritual gifts that kills wickedness and the true word of God/Yah coupled with a very close relationship. 

A Sancti-Fly Mama name Genae allowed me to share her answers as an example.

Genae
1.  Mixture of things or elements:  The Sun, The Moon, & the Stars, I'd like to consider myself of cayenne pepper & Lemon Pepper, & Jerk Seasoning, LOL

2.  Song Title:  "Run the World (Girls)" by Beyoncé, "My Name is Victory" by Jonathan Nelson, "It's the God in Me" by Mary Mary

3.  My life in a Book:  Drama, Comedy, A Production, Broadway Review Shows, African Dance, Musicals, Health & Fitness, Yoga & Meditation, Prayer, Church, God, Love for Humanity, Activist for People's Rights, Romance, Art, Entertainment, Travel, Adventure, Diversity of Cultures, Philanthropist, Life Coach

How would you describe yourself as a book, a song or the mixture of your elements?

It must be twice as nice coupled with feelings of super great, to buy your way to an education in any state. It’s like the best way to cheat yourself. This country is leaking in cheating and lying. America's history has a current timeline of that going on right about now. Let’s talk about the liberty of free credit checks for all and how Black Twitter doubled checked some respect to Marvel's Endgame to ensure they corrected their mistake. Have no fear, Power-Pretty Mamas always brighten up our atmosphere with purpose-driving living + vision. Please pay attention to these interesting mentions.

YOU CAN HAVE WHATEVER YOU LIKE

Lori Loughlin is reaping and sowing the troubles of her actions. She was bribing and conniving to get her girls into college on the merits of being plutocrats. Have you heard about this story? Madamenoire points out that this woman and another lady by the name of Felicity Huffman allegedly was part of a college admissions scam involving their affluent children. I am not the least bit surprised. This has been going on forever and will probably continue to. There are folks who actually work their tails off to get into these schools and at least they deserve it! In light of this scandal some brands like Sephora have dropped Olivia Jade (Lori's daughter) as confirmed by Today. Your brand name is important. A few brands no longer wish to be connected to Lori and her family. I am sure this will all fade away. Lori and Olivia will be richly alright.

INSPIRATIONAL WARFARE

Bravery, strength, and elegance is the gift Danai Gurira gave to us in the top-selling movie Black Panther. You remember she played the character of Okoye. She is a foudroyant blend of black girl magic who we absolutely appreciated in Black Panther. In life when things are not right, you really don’t have to utter a word when you are loved and valued. Other folks will fight against those who fight against you, whether intentional or not. When Marvel released their poster for their new movie Endgame it wasn’t the end. They accidentally (I think) left out Danai’s name on the poster. Black Twitter quickly let them know it wasn’t okay according to the Root. They always get to the root of issues and complications. Also noted in IndieWire, they talk about the backlash of omitting her name. Pay attention because Danai Gurira shall always be remembered and mentioned.

PLEASE VOTE FOR EBONY BROOKS, MBA, MSA 

Ebony Brooks is a superlative Power-Pretty Mama. She is an efficacious tax preparer who dreams big and rocks in her plans and ambitions like the star she is. In solidarity of all the women blazing in magic doing this Women’s History Month, Ebony Brooks is a woman we can all be proud of. This vibrant young woman is asking for your help as she seeks out the positive energy in you to assist her in the FedEx Small Business Grant Contest. Ebony is not just a professional woman who caters to your personal and corporate tax needs. Fashioned deep in Ebony’s heart is the passion to serve her community as she has shared her knowledge and expertise. Please read about what she plans to do when she wins the grant money. Click on the orange button and vote! Thank you to all the Sancti-Fly Mamas and Papas for voting!

POLITICS IN THE MIX​

Since the inception of this great nation, the foundation has been a bit crooked. It has not been unification and equity for all, although as a people in a democratic society (I think) the majority of folks strive to keep hope, fairness, and justice soaked in righteousness alive. Sometimes we fail and sometimes we thrive.

CREDIT CHECKS IN EFFECT
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Did know that you can take full control over protecting your personal information and your name? Yes, you can! You are entitled to a free credit report every year from three of the federally regulated credit companies. It’s extremely imperative to become well acquainted with TransUnion, Equifax and Experian. It’s 2019 and time for you to use the right measures to safeguard your name and your credit history. If you don't who will? If you have any discrepancies you can let them know. They will investigate your claim and it will be fixed. You have a right to look out for your credit and advocate for yourself. This is the year to do it. Please don’t procrastinate. You can sign up online or call 1-877-322-8228. Call now to get your FREE credit report to ensure your information is correct and up to date. Please share this mention!